July 2009 buddies wanted!!

[wishingonastar]

bloody hell girls...another july baby has become an angel i can't imagine the loss the mummies are going through...this is so awful and scary for all

 

[TigerLady]

bloody hell girls...another july baby has become an angel i can't imagine the loss the mummies are going through...this is so awful and scary for all

Oh my! This TERRIFIES me every time I hear something like this. I wish all of our bubs would just get here! That way we know they are safe and sound.

 

[Elliebank]

It's just awful...it really is. I just want her here now, safe in my arms

 

[shelleylu]

Oh this is so sad..

Just makes me more concerned and frusrtated about my LO. I want it over with now,. Have been in big pain again all afternoon. Feel so sick too. Conmtractions only start when i sit down though?

Sarah - enjoy your massage hun xxx

 

[Twiglet]

this is awful

Shelley I really hope your LO makes an appearance soon

 

[TigerLady]

<--- thinks shell should sit and not move until baby's head crowns!!

 

[wishingonastar]

Conmtractions only start when i sit down though?

maybe you should sit down all day???????

 

[shelleylu]

Oh & Shelley have a look at this -

https://www.babycenter.com/404_what...for-non-food-items-during-pregnanc_1186643.bc

I've been craving ice which seems to be related to my iron deficiency. You have that pica don't you?

That was quite interesting - thanks hun. Ive read up on it quite a bit - I love some of the girls replies... Glad Im not alone with the grit/plaster thing - although I have just read plaster containing lead can give children brain damage from lead poisoning. I feel relly guilty for eating it now. Just researching if my wall at home is safe?

 

[shelleylu]

Conmtractions only start when i sit down though?

maybe you should sit down all day???????

lol, I swear its true. Its the total opposite to how it should be!!!!! They've started since Ive been on pc sat dowmn, but not while I was out and about???!!!!

 

[wishingonastar]

me and you are both having wierd ends to our pregnancies me thinks!!! ha ha

 

[elley_baby248]

Oh this is so sad..

Just makes me more concerned and frusrtated about my LO. I want it over with now,. Have been in big pain again all afternoon. Feel so sick too. Conmtractions only start when i sit down though?

Sarah - enjoy your massage hun xxx

Mine started lastnight exactly the same only when i sit down and spent most of yesterday feeling sick! Today i have had a few while i have been out but only when i was sat down or stood still except i was walking home literally a 2 min walk from the bus stop and i had the worst pain through my stomach that i was crying as i walked round the corner there was nothing else i could do except keep walking and get in the house asap. So it sounds as if we are in the same boat.

I'm sat here now with my stomach and back going so tight it's so horrible.

I read about the July baby and it's actually quite scary because there have been a few now when i was reading it i realised i hadn't felt the baby move for a few hours but just as i got a bit worried he moved about and went mad as if to reassure me he was ok I want him out now because then atleast if somethig is wrong then i can see it and try and do something about it becaue atm all we have to go on is movements

Oh and just to piss me off i was at the bus stop waiting for the bus (obviously lol) and a lad stood up and offered his seat to a girl stood next to him (you know the type tall skinny stupid hair big sunglasses reading her magazine) and there was me 38 weeks pregnant can't miss my bump if you tried and did anybody offer me there seat erm nope! Just kept staring at me i felt like saying WTF you looking at yes am pregnant fat and tired and yes i would love to sit down but don't mind me you keep your seat i'll struggle! and then i got barged past by everyone so they could get on the bus first i mean really wats the point it's not like it ever gets full!

 

[TigerLady]

@ those stupid bus stop ninnies!!!

 

[elley_baby248]

It really was a good thing i wasn't in a bad mood i'd of got sent down for murder or something.

I'm so bored of being told what i can and can't do a friend of msn is getting an unexpected rant atm cause am really annoyed

 

[SJK]

Hi girls,

just a quick one, havent got a chance to read all the posts yet, hang on in there, yous are all so close , in a week or 2 it will all be over.

Thanks to EB and WOS and cerilou for updating everyone, as you all no I had
Elliott George Kirkham on Friday 10th @12.50 hrs, weighing 7lb 15.5, I am sooo in love with him , feeling very guilty cos I didnt feel like this as much as I shouldve with Jack.

I will write my birth story in a day or 2, but basically I was in slow labour all of last week, I had my water broke at 07.30hrs fri and was fully dilated by 09.00 hrs, I insisted on an epidural which held me up by a couple hours, they said he should've been born around 10am, but I knew best !!! I cant sit here for long as I have 2 one inch tears in my lady bits and the stitches are killing me, but he was well worth it, I was given a mirror and watched him come into the world, THE MOST AMAZING THING I HAVE AND WILL EVER SEE and I want to remember it forever.

Anyway girls, take care and good luck, be thinking about yous and will get a good chat soon xxxx

 

[wishingonastar]

aww...you're braver than me watching in a mirror hun!!!!

 

[whitelilly]

Lol, I think I would watch it out of sheer curiosity.

Well..... tonight hubby and I went for a Nandos and I had it hot! It was yummy! Then he bought me pineapple from M&S, we walked quite a bit and we also tried the sex thing. It was quite painful though (been sooo long and I was also tense I think) and I am now bouncing on my ball while he is fast-a-bo-peep in bed! Baby is wriggling about a lot and I can feel him really low down... almost like I have a big bowling ball right in between my hips and lady bits!

I was so sad there was another July angel too.... while I completely understand the need to share and wouldn't have it any other way, it really scares me too.

SJK- you will need to put a pic up of Elliott so we can all see him! You sound so happy!!!

Anyways, I am off to bed now. xx

 

[TigerLady]

I would totally watch it in a mirror! I asked the doc if I could watch him pull Otter out at my section but he said NO WAY!

Oh well.

 

[Sarah+]

When we did our hospital tour, they pointed out a 'good spot' to put the videocamera tripod in the delivery room....! Yeah, right! I don't want to see it the first time, let along again! And I've hold hubby he's staying up 'head' end during delivery

 

[shelleylu]

Oh this is so sad..

Just makes me more concerned and frusrtated about my LO. I want it over with now,. Have been in big pain again all afternoon. Feel so sick too. Conmtractions only start when i sit down though?

Sarah - enjoy your massage hun xxx

Mine started lastnight exactly the same only when i sit down and spent most of yesterday feeling sick! Today i have had a few while i have been out but only when i was sat down or stood still except i was walking home literally a 2 min walk from the bus stop and i had the worst pain through my stomach that i was crying as i walked round the corner there was nothing else i could do except keep walking and get in the house asap. So it sounds as if we are in the same boat.

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Oh hun not you too! The pain of a contraction is unlike any other. I ony had one or two last night - after loads yesterday afternoon. By last night, the whole thing has completely stopped! I cant believe it. Bags are packed, ready to go. William was sorted out and Ive mentally prepared myself - for this - nothing.

I am not impressed to say the least. And to top it off - all of my downstairs plumbing is buggered. I cant wee properly, and from all the 'clearing out' Ive done its sheer agony to go to the loo now. Just something else to wind me up I guess!

Elley - so sorry about the grotbags at the bus stop sweetie. I had it a few weeks ago on the tram in that heat wave. Folk look at you, and then each other like they shopuld all move - yet nobody does? Load of selfish freaks about....

SJK - I am super chuffed everything worked out for you. Slow labour is officially THE WORST, so you deserve extra repairing chocolates!!

Sarah I am so with you girl. You've got no chance me watching, and OH is defo head end! - Get your hosp with Tripod ideas! LMAO - yeah right!...

 

[elley_baby248]

Oh this is so sad..

Just makes me more concerned and frusrtated about my LO. I want it over with now,. Have been in big pain again all afternoon. Feel so sick too. Conmtractions only start when i sit down though?

Sarah - enjoy your massage hun xxx

Mine started lastnight exactly the same only when i sit down and spent most of yesterday feeling sick! Today i have had a few while i have been out but only when i was sat down or stood still except i was walking home literally a 2 min walk from the bus stop and i had the worst pain through my stomach that i was crying as i walked round the corner there was nothing else i could do except keep walking and get in the house asap. So it sounds as if we are in the same boat.

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Oh hun not you too! The pain of a contraction is unlike any other. I ony had one or two last night - after loads yesterday afternoon. By last night, the whole thing has completely stopped! I cant believe it. Bags are packed, ready to go. William was sorted out and Ive mentally prepared myself - for this - nothing.

I am not impressed to say the least. And to top it off - all of my downstairs plumbing is buggered. I cant wee properly, and from all the 'clearing out' Ive done its sheer agony to go to the loo now. Just something else to wind me up I guess!

Elley - so sorry about the grotbags at the bus stop sweetie. I had it a few weeks ago on the tram in that heat wave. Folk look at you, and then each other like they shopuld all move - yet nobody does? Load of selfish freaks about....

SJK - I am super chuffed everything worked out for you. Slow labour is officially THE WORST, so you deserve extra repairing chocolates!!

Sarah I am so with you girl. You've got no chance me watching, and OH is defo head end! - Get your hosp with Tripod ideas! LMAO - yeah right!...

I had the same again lastnight but they seemed to get worse when i was in the bath it's really frustrating and i know what you mean about the plumbing being messed up!

I've started spotting now as well. Told the midwife this had been happening on and off for a while when i seen her on monday after she had found blood in my wee sample but she didn't seem concerned but it's started again lastnight and still doing it today it's starting to annoy me now but i don't wanna cause a fuss over nothing if my midwife wasn't fussed then surely it can't be that bad a thing?

OMG this sounds stupid but i didn't know there was such a thing as Nanny School! It's on the telly now and they are all dressed in Mary poppins type uniforms with hats and gloves and everything it looks so cool would of loved to do something like that if i had a chance.