Hi I'm kinda new here (very new on this WTT board) and just wanted to get some things off my chest about wanting to try, my fears and hopes etc coz my partner doesn't really understand some of these things!
I fell pregnant 'accidentally' in late September but suffered an early miscarriage. Before my pregnancy I didn't really think about having children in the near future but as soon as we found out I was pregnant we both got so excited and were really happy about it! We're in a good enough place to have a baby, but I dunno I just always imagined myself older (I'm 22 my boyfriend is 32). But now ever since I just feel so ready! We've talked about trying for a baby but decided to not try but not use contraception either and just go with it....
One thing it am majorly REALLY scared of is morning sickness (or any sickness at that) I've suffered with emetophobia (fear of vomiting) really bad since I was little. I know babies are always throwing up... That I can cope with, it's the feeling of ME physically throwing up I am absolutely petrified of! It is such a strong phobia I have been on anti anxiety medications for years, I'm a hand washing freak (but not to the extent I'm bleaching my skin off or anything that dramatic). So literally my biggest fear of pregnancy is... Vomiting! How ridiculas is that! And this is one thing my OH really doesn't understand or relate to! So I wondered if anyone here by any chance has the same phobia?!
Another worry is... I'm epileptic, I didn't have my first grand mal seizure until I was 15 and I haven't had one since I was 18ish I am on great medication for that, but what if my medication would need to be changed during pregnancy and i had a seizure and it affects my baby?!! That is another really scary thing!
And my last but not least (major) worry is childbirth! I do pain well at all and I can't imagine anything more traumatic than squeezing a human through my down below.... I know at the end it's all worth it but what if I have hours and hours in labor or something goes wrong and it all hurts more than it does for other women... I don't know, that's just a huge worry!
I have no worries about bringing up a child, I know I won't be perfect as nobody is and there's no handbook that's gonna pop out along with baby to keep me on the right tracks... But I know me and my partner will do absolutely everything to raise a happy, healthy and much loved child.
I'm so sorry for my blab here I just needed to get it out of my head!
I fell pregnant 'accidentally' in late September but suffered an early miscarriage. Before my pregnancy I didn't really think about having children in the near future but as soon as we found out I was pregnant we both got so excited and were really happy about it! We're in a good enough place to have a baby, but I dunno I just always imagined myself older (I'm 22 my boyfriend is 32). But now ever since I just feel so ready! We've talked about trying for a baby but decided to not try but not use contraception either and just go with it....
One thing it am majorly REALLY scared of is morning sickness (or any sickness at that) I've suffered with emetophobia (fear of vomiting) really bad since I was little. I know babies are always throwing up... That I can cope with, it's the feeling of ME physically throwing up I am absolutely petrified of! It is such a strong phobia I have been on anti anxiety medications for years, I'm a hand washing freak (but not to the extent I'm bleaching my skin off or anything that dramatic). So literally my biggest fear of pregnancy is... Vomiting! How ridiculas is that! And this is one thing my OH really doesn't understand or relate to! So I wondered if anyone here by any chance has the same phobia?!
Another worry is... I'm epileptic, I didn't have my first grand mal seizure until I was 15 and I haven't had one since I was 18ish I am on great medication for that, but what if my medication would need to be changed during pregnancy and i had a seizure and it affects my baby?!! That is another really scary thing!
And my last but not least (major) worry is childbirth! I do pain well at all and I can't imagine anything more traumatic than squeezing a human through my down below.... I know at the end it's all worth it but what if I have hours and hours in labor or something goes wrong and it all hurts more than it does for other women... I don't know, that's just a huge worry!
I have no worries about bringing up a child, I know I won't be perfect as nobody is and there's no handbook that's gonna pop out along with baby to keep me on the right tracks... But I know me and my partner will do absolutely everything to raise a happy, healthy and much loved child.
I'm so sorry for my blab here I just needed to get it out of my head!