just devastated

[wishful think]

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[littlebopeep]

So Sorry to hear that wishful, hope that your ok

 

[wishful think]

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[JaniceT]

Hi wishful think, I'm so sorry to hear about that

Well, even if your tubes were not blocked, you and your OH will still need to go through ICSI due to his low sperm counts. Just hang in there, keep positive and it will happen even if it takes a little longer time

 

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[Wallie]

I can imagine how upsetting this is for you both. What's the next step, when are you looking at getting ICSI?

 

[Chris77]

Oh hunni, I'm so so sorry.

 

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[Firefox]

Really sorry to hear about your results did they tell you straight away when you came round after the procedure?

Stay positive, the ICSI still gives you hope....dont stop believing, know its easy to say x

Im awaiting a appointment for lap and dye at the mo as clomid doesnt work for me and I dont ov on my own

 

[emilyjean]

Aww, I'm in a similar situation, except my tubes are clear. Not that it matters, our tiny sperm count is what's making this process impossible.

I know it's hard, but I try and look at it in a positive light. At least we know what's causing it and how to fix it. It's actually a huge burden off my shoulders at the moment because I don't have to try anymore! I feel better than I have in a year.

It'll all work out!

 

[FutureMommie]

Wishful- I am so sorry, I can't not even begin to imagine what you are going through!

 

[Flake-y]

So sorry to hear your news; I can sympathise, as when we found out DH was infertile (and I also have mild PCOS), we knew that natural conception was impossible & it was a big shock.

Hope you & ur DH are ok

 

[maaybe2010]

My OHs auntie was in EXACTLY the same position.

I know you've only just found out but she told us that she felt better after a while because at least each month she wasn't sitting wondering if she was pregnant or not, testing, crying, OPKs the lot. . .

I know it means that you only have ICSI to get pregnant by and that is a crappy situation to be in but I hope that ICSI works for you

 

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[bumski]

really sorry your having to go through this, i hope in time you feel you can move forward with ttc

 

[Firefox]

My OHs auntie was in EXACTLY the same position.

I know you've only just found out but she told us that she felt better after a while because at least each month she wasn't sitting wondering if she was pregnant or not, testing, crying, OPKs the lot. . .

I know it means that you only have ICSI to get pregnant by and that is a crappy situation to be in but I hope that ICSI works for you

Completely agree with maaybe it is such a crappy situation but at least you arent completely in the dark about what is wrong now and still have the option of ICSI.

Hope you have started to get your head around it x

 

[maaybe2010]

My OHs auntie was in EXACTLY the same position.

I know you've only just found out but she told us that she felt better after a while because at least each month she wasn't sitting wondering if she was pregnant or not, testing, crying, OPKs the lot. . .

I know it means that you only have ICSI to get pregnant by and that is a crappy situation to be in but I hope that ICSI works for you

I forgot to add that her son is 14 now

 

[africaqueen]

I have no tubes following 2 ectopics and IVF is our only option so i know how devastated you must be, but please know that u will accept it in the end. It is the only way to move forward. My whole world fell apart with my second ectopic but i am hopeful for IVF and having our baby one day. If you need to talk, please pm me xxx

 

[sianyld]

i'm sorry u have to go thru this sweetheart and i really hope u ICSI will be the answer for hunny xx

 

[biscuitnodles]

I have no tubes following 2 ectopics and IVF is our only option so i know how devastated you must be, but please know that u will accept it in the end. It is the only way to move forward. My whole world fell apart with my second ectopic but i am hopeful for IVF and having our baby one day. If you need to talk, please pm me xxx

Hello africaqueen,

I am interested to know how you managed to accept your situation and move on? I think it would really help me.

My husband and I found out we can only conceive through ivf after trying for two and a half years, this is due to his low sperm count. I am finding it hard to deal with and I worry ivf might not work and I am worried about going through it and paying for it as I am under 30. So all in all it is really hard to just relax and wait for the doctors to do their thing! Can you help?

Thanks,

Amanda