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LoolaBear
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i would say to your mum that she needs to do something about it otherwise you cant stay there esepcially after the baby has arrived as it wont be a safe stable home to bring the child up in.
if she doesnt do anything then all ican say is either call the police on him or the only thing you can do is leave otherwise you will end up having social services involved as the baby will be the subject of racism and emotional abuse being brought up in an enviroment like that and it will probably end up with your baby being taken away from you as they will look at it as you allowed it to happen by staying there or not instigating something to be done about the situation.
i know its unfair but this is how social services are working now a days, and also if you baby is taken away then at such a young age 9 times out of 10 the baby tends to get put straight into the adoption service so something does need to be done now.
you and your mum need to do something, stand up to him and dont back down. xx
if she doesnt do anything then all ican say is either call the police on him or the only thing you can do is leave otherwise you will end up having social services involved as the baby will be the subject of racism and emotional abuse being brought up in an enviroment like that and it will probably end up with your baby being taken away from you as they will look at it as you allowed it to happen by staying there or not instigating something to be done about the situation.
i know its unfair but this is how social services are working now a days, and also if you baby is taken away then at such a young age 9 times out of 10 the baby tends to get put straight into the adoption service so something does need to be done now.
you and your mum need to do something, stand up to him and dont back down. xx
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You really need to talk to someone about this before yout baby comes, as it really isn't safe for him to be brought into that enviroment, especially when your brother is already being verbally abusive towards him and pushed you over at 3 months pregnant.
I agree with LoolaBear that if nothing is done then someone will step in.
Try calling the police and see what they say, it really isn't fair or safe to brng a baby in this enviroment.
I hope everything goes okay hun.
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I agree with LoolaBear that if nothing is done then someone will step in.
Try calling the police and see what they say, it really isn't fair or safe to brng a baby in this enviroment.
I hope everything goes okay hun.
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Same as the other girls have said, this is something that really needs to be sorted before baby comes along. I know it's a horrible thing to say but you just don't know what could happen with him being around the baby. You need to try talking to your mum as well, letting this go on just because she's worried about what other people in the street think isn't a good enough reason to put your LO at risk.
Sorry if it seemed a bit blunt, but you definitely need to sort it out and I really hope you manage to I'm here if you need to talk to someone! x
Sorry if it seemed a bit blunt, but you definitely need to sort it out and I really hope you manage to
I'm here if you need to talk to someone! x
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we have rang the police again
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Has he tried going to a doctor/counsellor for his drinking?
I would keep on to the police/council as social services will be involved onc e your LO is here.
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I would keep on to the police/council as social services will be involved onc e your LO is here.
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is there no other family that could help? It might be worth talking to your local Citizens Advice, because someone should be able to help you x
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yeh hes been seeing a counseller the past few mnths isnt doing anything tho my sisters have tryed every thing they can just no1 at all wants to no we have try help from every1
