BrandiCanucks
Mommy of 4, WTT
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Why do people feel the need to tell you to get over it and be happy when you've had your baby?
I had a very traumatic delivery and my son almost died. I feel like talking about it helps me to cope and process. Going through what happened, step by step, helps me to understand why it was necessary and helps me to heal from it emotionally.
I'm struggling a lot with what happened, as I had three perfect vaginal deliveries, and then an emergency c-section with my 5 day old. Every time I try and talk to my mom or a friend, or bring it up on a forum, though, I get "But your son is here and he's alive. Just be happy" or "He's fine. Stop dwelling".
Why do people feel the need to say stupid things like this?
I had a very traumatic delivery and my son almost died. I feel like talking about it helps me to cope and process. Going through what happened, step by step, helps me to understand why it was necessary and helps me to heal from it emotionally.
I'm struggling a lot with what happened, as I had three perfect vaginal deliveries, and then an emergency c-section with my 5 day old. Every time I try and talk to my mom or a friend, or bring it up on a forum, though, I get "But your son is here and he's alive. Just be happy" or "He's fine. Stop dwelling".
Why do people feel the need to say stupid things like this?