meemee
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I guess I'm just after some guidance at the moment, or if anyone has been in a similar situation?
We had our first child in 2010, great pregnancy, perfect birth. Then in 2011 we had a miscarriage in both August and November, both natural at about 6 and a half weeks. We conceived straight after the miscarriage and had a beautiful little boy in September 2012. After that we decided that wasit for us, we were totally content with our little family of 4 and were happy to keep it that way
Then in March we found out (incredibly unexpectedly) that we were pregnant again. At first it was a hell of a shock and then we started to get really excited and I absolutely fell in love with the idea of our little surprise baby. Unfortunately it wasn't to be and at the 12 week scan we found out that our precious baby had passed away at 9 weeks. We had to wait 6 days between finding out and getting the d&c and it was the worst experience of my entire life, I was just wrecked with grief. In comparison the d&c was a breeze, I actually feel great now that it's over, still missing what could have been but feeling closure
But what I'm totally unsure of is if I actually want to try for another baby or not after this one, I keep going backwards and forwards between wanting my baby back and just still really enjoying the 2 gorgeous children I have. Has anyone else been in a similar position? If so, what did you decide? Or do you have any advice?
We had our first child in 2010, great pregnancy, perfect birth. Then in 2011 we had a miscarriage in both August and November, both natural at about 6 and a half weeks. We conceived straight after the miscarriage and had a beautiful little boy in September 2012. After that we decided that wasit for us, we were totally content with our little family of 4 and were happy to keep it that way
Then in March we found out (incredibly unexpectedly) that we were pregnant again. At first it was a hell of a shock and then we started to get really excited and I absolutely fell in love with the idea of our little surprise baby. Unfortunately it wasn't to be and at the 12 week scan we found out that our precious baby had passed away at 9 weeks. We had to wait 6 days between finding out and getting the d&c and it was the worst experience of my entire life, I was just wrecked with grief. In comparison the d&c was a breeze, I actually feel great now that it's over, still missing what could have been but feeling closure
But what I'm totally unsure of is if I actually want to try for another baby or not after this one, I keep going backwards and forwards between wanting my baby back and just still really enjoying the 2 gorgeous children I have. Has anyone else been in a similar position? If so, what did you decide? Or do you have any advice?