Just need some advice about cycles/ovulating

[Becyboo__x]

Yeah it is 25 day then
I did my temp again when i got up yesterday it was 37.0C .. today its 37.9C .. seems to of shot up on my chart? will that be possible ovulation do you think? And my pelvis is hurting me really badly today just a aching pain

And i hope it all goes okay to for OH his daughter deserves to be with her dad and happy like she has been (her mums basically not worth talking about drugs/homeless just messed her life up)

Well i hope this is a good sign anyway! xx

 

[taylorxx]

Yeah it is 25 day then
I did my temp again when i got up yesterday it was 37.0C .. today its 37.9C .. seems to of shot up on my chart? will that be possible ovulation do you think? And my pelvis is hurting me really badly today just a aching pain

And i hope it all goes okay to for OH his daughter deserves to be with her dad and happy like she has been (her mums basically not worth talking about drugs/homeless just messed her life up)

Well i hope this is a good sign anyway! xx

If it stays up then yeah sounds like ovulation, esp with the aches. You took it at the same time every morning right?

I'll keep your family and OH's daughter in my thoughts, hope everything goes well! Lots of positive thoughts & sticky baby dust y'alls way xx

 

[Becyboo__x]

Yep soon as i get up i do temps just think i should of started that when AF finished but nevermind i think i might be ovulating today my tests still haven't shown now 3 days late not impressed at all wish i got them from the shop instead of online

Just feeling really down now as OH is being really off he said he would because of court coming up but he knows im here for him and everything just feel like im not wanted and he doesn't want me might be silly but i hope it passes xx

 

[danniemum2be]

aww hun, hes got so much on his mind im always like that with OH when ive got stuff on my mind. Hope it all goes well for him! are you gunna set up a journal for me to stalk lol? xx

 

[ellie27]

If your period is roughly 24 days long I would make sure you do the deed from days 8 to 14 (or every 2nd day)

I ovulate 10 days before my period, so if you do also, then you wouldnt be due to ovulate for another few days yet.

Keep bd'ing and good luck!!

 

[Becyboo__x]

aww hun, hes got so much on his mind im always like that with OH when ive got stuff on my mind. Hope it all goes well for him! are you gunna set up a journal for me to stalk lol? xx

I might start one im not sure no-one tends me be interested i feel like im talking to myself alot on it plus weve only been trying properley this cycle as we was NTNP and nothing happened from it so i wanted to start doing OPK's and temping

And i really do feel sorry for him and i know what hes going through and how shit it is for him but im limited to what i can do i can only be there for him as he don't like talking much about it as it gets him angry and pissed off as it would anyone.. but hes had a set back i think as hes now been told after friday at court (was ment to be done and dusted then) it will most likly get adjourned yet again so it makes him worse i think he just wants his life back like any person would and after his daughter's been to contact with her mum shes came back playing up for him because of her its just really unfair xx

If your period is roughly 24 days long I would make sure you do the deed from days 8 to 14 (or every 2nd day)

I ovulate 10 days before my period, so if you do also, then you wouldnt be due to ovulate for another few days yet.

Keep bd'ing and good luck!!

Its 24/25 day iv not recieved my tests so im angry as i wanted to test 11th-13th mainly because thats when im ment to ovulate but i think BD wed-fri we should be okay for this cycle and see what happens if were not then its a fluck missing it i guess but then again im now unsure if this cycle will even be okay for us as i don't want to put pressure on him that we need to BD more with whats going off.. he was perfectly keen on it all but i guess things crop up unexpected .. xx

 

[taylorxx]

Yep soon as i get up i do temps just think i should of started that when AF finished but nevermind i think i might be ovulating today my tests still haven't shown now 3 days late not impressed at all wish i got them from the shop instead of online

Just feeling really down now as OH is being really off he said he would because of court coming up but he knows im here for him and everything just feel like im not wanted and he doesn't want me might be silly but i hope it passes xx

Where did you get your tests from? Some online cheapies are just as good as drugstores but some are dodgy. Just because you aren't getting a positive now, doesn't mean you won't. You may have a shorter LP. OPKs don't have to fade in to positives, sometimes they are very negative, then the next day VERY positive haha. xx

 

[Becyboo__x]

I got them on ebay but it was from a supplier who sells alot of them not just off a random person selling the odd 1 etc .. she sent them out 1st class recorded and they should of been here saturday but nothing she said there must be a delay :\ so im thinking tomorrow they will arrive.. there the clearblue smiley ones.. and iv ordered just some cheap dip sticks for next time if were out this cycle..

Im clueless with OPK's and temping xx

 

[taylorxx]

Oh sorry I thought you meant they haven't shown a line! I read too fast Do you have any fertile signs at the moment? EWCM, watery CM, high/soft/open cervix, tender breasts, cramping? xx

 

[Becyboo__x]

No iv not even started yet i think itll be out the window this cycle for doing OPK's wish i just brought them normally now i will learn next time

All i've had is yesterday and today the dull aching and stomach cramps like making me feel sick and it made me go off what i normally drink and loss of appertite.. i check my CM alot it went from being creamy/sticky to watery within a few days, i never notice any change with my breasts, and im not sure on how to check my cervix i don't understand soft/open etc i know what they mean just never checked before..

I went to the doctors on friday to check my CM as after i came off the pill a few months ago everything changed in my cycles .. And she told me my cervix was tinted not sure what that implys? and she said it was slightly open then? xx

 

[danniemum2be]

i have no idea about how to even find my cervix hahaha but i read after youve been pregnant and given birth your cervix may always be slightly open. im waiting for AF to show but deffo feel like shes on her way x

 

[Becyboo__x]

Don't say that till she actual has came!
Its hard i think with when your waiting to either test or AF i don't normally get AF pains before or anything like that but there so simler signs with the cramping aswell.. iv been 2-4 days late on before which gets your hopes up But FX'ed AF stays away for you dannie

Iv not a clue what the nurse ment i should of asked her tbh but i feelt abit silly
i looked up "tinted cervix" and that says it indicates pregnancy i just thought in my head well i can't be pregnant right now xx

 

[danniemum2be]

haha but you could! shes a day late gotta wait for my tests to arrive. did one sat and BFN had so much cramping the past few days and tiny bit of brown cm over past 3 days only when i go the loo. usually when i get that i get a heavy flow within a few hours but i havent. and i feel soooooo sick. i dont think i am this time though as we werent even trying this month. and now ive ordered tests i just know she will arrive lol xx

 

[Becyboo__x]

That always happens waiting for tests and she arrive all of a sudden but in your case i hope she doesn't! this might be your time trying or not trying properley it still can happen at anytime unexpected !

Im all excited now xx

 

[danniemum2be]

eeeek we could be pregnant together again! im so bloated right now could barely eat tea i feel so stuffed and hardly eaten anything, dont even knw what day i ovulated though. x

 

[taylorxx]

No iv not even started yet i think itll be out the window this cycle for doing OPK's wish i just brought them normally now i will learn next time

All i've had is yesterday and today the dull aching and stomach cramps like making me feel sick and it made me go off what i normally drink and loss of appertite.. i check my CM alot it went from being creamy/sticky to watery within a few days, i never notice any change with my breasts, and im not sure on how to check my cervix i don't understand soft/open etc i know what they mean just never checked before..

I went to the doctors on friday to check my CM as after i came off the pill a few months ago everything changed in my cycles .. And she told me my cervix was tinted not sure what that implys? and she said it was slightly open then? xx

Do you mean tilted? Your cervix changes all throughout your cycle. It can be open, closed, hard, medium, soft, high, low, etc. It's shaped as a ball with a little dent in it.. about the size of a bouncy ball. You have to kind of feel around up there haha

 

[Becyboo__x]

eeeek we could be pregnant together again! im so bloated right now could barely eat tea i feel so stuffed and hardly eaten anything, dont even knw what day i ovulated though. x

!! Sounds good to me i had such bad bloating though last 2 months coming off the pill i even made a thread on here showing how much my stomach grew i looked like 20 week pregnant i was huge but its gone back done thankfully Usually i don't have a clue when i ovulate either i just go with the flow and don't track all my stuff but i get bored and feel the excitment of little things coming up that i can do lol! xxx

No iv not even started yet i think itll be out the window this cycle for doing OPK's wish i just brought them normally now i will learn next time

All i've had is yesterday and today the dull aching and stomach cramps like making me feel sick and it made me go off what i normally drink and loss of appertite.. i check my CM alot it went from being creamy/sticky to watery within a few days, i never notice any change with my breasts, and im not sure on how to check my cervix i don't understand soft/open etc i know what they mean just never checked before..

I went to the doctors on friday to check my CM as after i came off the pill a few months ago everything changed in my cycles .. And she told me my cervix was tinted not sure what that implys? and she said it was slightly open then? xx

Do you mean tilted? Your cervix changes all throughout your cycle. It can be open, closed, hard, medium, soft, high, low, etc. It's shaped as a ball with a little dent in it.. about the size of a bouncy ball. You have to kind of feel around up there haha

I don't know now i'm sure she said tinted it might of been tilted the words sound too alike for me to remember i think iv feelt it before well what i think it is anyway its usually soft and low not sure about open/closed xx

 

[taylorxx]

I've heard of a tilted cervix before but not a tinted, that's why I asked It changes depending on where you are in your cycle. Before ov it's either high/hard or low and soft & closed.. but may be a bit open. During ovulation it's high, soft & open. Then right after ov it goes low and hard. If you've ever DTD and felt like your OH was hitting somethings, he's hitting your cervix because it's low and hard. Just feel around in there and you'll find it eventually! xx

 

[Becyboo__x]

Right i got my OPK today.. not sure if its too late

but i did my FMU in a container it was only about an hour before the post came..
but it came up with a blank smiley .. i have a thing about looking at the lines aswell
like on digi pregnancy tests even though it apparently means nothing?

but i don't know if i must of already OV'ed? because on the info it comes with it says to count from my first day of LMP and then theres a chart and under how long your cycle is it says a number and it says thats the day youll most likly get a smiley.. mine says under 25 .. 8 but that would of been well too early so im confused should i take the tests a few more days? and see what i get and if still blank ill take it iv ovulated already?

My temp has gone from 100.2 yesterday to 98.4 today aswell so i think if i took a test yesterday i would of got a smiley? just because my temp was so high and went rapidly down again

 

[danniemum2be]

i read somewhere not to use your FMU with an OPK but to test any between 10am and 8pm when youve been up a few hours xx