allforthegirl
Mom of 5 boys
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of having boys. I have another thread on here, and I thought I was doing ok, but in reality I am not! All the comments about how much you will love him when he is here, is not helping. Well of course I will love him, but that doesn't fix the fact that I am not able to have a girl. What makes it even worse is that I have had only boys with two husbands.... So my stupid vagina hates me!
All the comments and such on FB and the stupid posts people are putting on their pages about mother daughter crap is going to put me into my coffin.
I just wanted, no needed, to do it a little bit differently. I have no want to buy or make this child anything. I am just so dang bored of all the boy crap in my house. I have already found myself wanting to throw it all out. I don't have a place for me here as all their stuff completely takes over everything.
I am so mad at myself for even thinking that it could happen. I am just putting unfair stress on my current children as well as this one in my tummy, as well as on myself. I am dreading my anatomy scan. As they will confirm for me that yup another boy. Which will remind me again that never will have a daughter. I have been making myself crazy thinking the lady was wrong. We paid for an early gender scan. At first I couldn't make out boy parts, but now that I have sat with it and looked at a million times it is starting to look more and more like boy parts, where as before I was sure it was a protrusion with swollen labia.
Man oh man did I read so much about how so many Dr and techs were wrong because every baby until the 20 week mark their genitals all develop at a different pace. So maybe just maybe it could be right? So I signed into my ingender account and posted my pic....everyone is so sure he is a he! That what I figured was not the right size to a penis and what I thought couldn't be a scrotum is. I am all right back to where I was and I just don't want to do this all over again. I am just so dang dumb.
I am just not sure if I will get over this. And no I don't think that me having female grandchildren is going to help me, at all. Doesn't mean I won't love them, I just know they will not fill the void of that daughter I dreamed about since I was very little.
So very unfair to my family!
All the comments and such on FB and the stupid posts people are putting on their pages about mother daughter crap is going to put me into my coffin.
I just wanted, no needed, to do it a little bit differently. I have no want to buy or make this child anything. I am just so dang bored of all the boy crap in my house. I have already found myself wanting to throw it all out. I don't have a place for me here as all their stuff completely takes over everything.
I am so mad at myself for even thinking that it could happen. I am just putting unfair stress on my current children as well as this one in my tummy, as well as on myself. I am dreading my anatomy scan. As they will confirm for me that yup another boy. Which will remind me again that never will have a daughter. I have been making myself crazy thinking the lady was wrong. We paid for an early gender scan. At first I couldn't make out boy parts, but now that I have sat with it and looked at a million times it is starting to look more and more like boy parts, where as before I was sure it was a protrusion with swollen labia.
Man oh man did I read so much about how so many Dr and techs were wrong because every baby until the 20 week mark their genitals all develop at a different pace. So maybe just maybe it could be right? So I signed into my ingender account and posted my pic....everyone is so sure he is a he! That what I figured was not the right size to a penis and what I thought couldn't be a scrotum is. I am all right back to where I was and I just don't want to do this all over again. I am just so dang dumb.
I am just not sure if I will get over this. And no I don't think that me having female grandchildren is going to help me, at all. Doesn't mean I won't love them, I just know they will not fill the void of that daughter I dreamed about since I was very little.
So very unfair to my family!