just venting as always.....

[hopefull85]

most everyone i know have kids or is pregnant so when i talk to them i try to avoid getting on any topic that consist of babies. like my bestfriend who doesnt take at all my feelings into consideration. her son turned 3 today and she got on the subject with me about how she doesnt want to have her kids so far apart and of course i just go with the flow. when i try to talk to her about anything that has to deal with my fertility problems she always turns it around so that its all about her. it just gets to me.

 

[Armywife84]

Sorry to hear that hopeful, but that's typical behavior from fertile myrtles. Even a little narcissistic if she's always talking about her self.

If it's any consolation, no one ever takes my feelings into account either. I don't expect people to walk on eggshells around me, but at least have a little bit of respect!

I found myself allowing distance between friends like yours and eventually the friendship ended. It's unfortunate, but it happens.

 

[cooch]

I am now avoiding 2 people because of their situation. I can handle little children and toddlers, just not pregnant women and babies, its way too hard. I cannot be around them and I don't want to hear their joy and excitement when what they're happy about is what I'm in hell about. I would love to share their happiness but I just can't. Do what's right for you.x

 

[hopefull85]

I am now avoiding 2 people because of their situation. I can handle little children and toddlers, just not pregnant women and babies, its way too hard. I cannot be around them and I don't want to hear their joy and excitement when what they're happy about is what I'm in hell about. I would love to share their happiness but I just can't. Do what's right for you.x

i feel the same as you. and it seems like no one around you cares to take the time to understand what we have to go through. i went with my sis in law yesterday to her check up cause she asked me too. well they were checking for the heartbeat and when i heard it i just wanted to cry. i just feel like screaming at the top of my lungs cause it just hurts so bad. but to everyone i know im just whining and i need to grow up ha right im almost 27 years old and have this pain that no one in my family will ever have. but i need to stop being selfish and grow up. i hold so much in that im just soooo tired.

 

[cooch]

The thing is, yes we should be happy for them. But we have our own lives and yes they are more important than these other people!!! If things were better and we were in better places then we'd all get our babies. One day, it better happen.x