I know everyone on here seems to go on a lot about the importance of 'keeping the soup in the bowl' but how important is this? Just recently, if i don't pee STRAIGHT after I end up with a water infection. I am currently on my 2nd course of anti-biotics this month. The doctor has told me that I must stop bd'ing so much (this month we have only bd'd 6 times - how can that be too much when you are TTC!?) and also that I must pee before and after sex. I have already missed O (i think) due to this infection Do you think going to the toilet straight after will have too much of a negative effect on TTC?