i'm sure after you've read this you'll be thinking "crazy woman" but kinda felt i needed some reassurance anyway!
basically, DH and i aren't in the best financial situation (like most people). we're renting a tiny flat at the mo, hubby has quite a lot of debt to pay off and we haven't got a huge amount of savings. we always said that ideally we'd like to buy our own place before starting a family but we're coming to think that it's going to have to be the other way round!
both our families are quite "traditional" (bit old fashioned but v supportive) and we always thought that when the time was right we'd be living in our own place, etc but it definitely looks now like we'll be living in rented for the foreseeable future. Family is really important to us both and we're looking to hopefully ttc next year.
how has everyone else coped? anybody living in rented when they had their first then managed to buy after that? sorry this is really rambling and probably sounds really silly
basically, DH and i aren't in the best financial situation (like most people). we're renting a tiny flat at the mo, hubby has quite a lot of debt to pay off and we haven't got a huge amount of savings. we always said that ideally we'd like to buy our own place before starting a family but we're coming to think that it's going to have to be the other way round!
both our families are quite "traditional" (bit old fashioned but v supportive) and we always thought that when the time was right we'd be living in our own place, etc but it definitely looks now like we'll be living in rented for the foreseeable future. Family is really important to us both and we're looking to hopefully ttc next year.
how has everyone else coped? anybody living in rented when they had their first then managed to buy after that? sorry this is really rambling and probably sounds really silly