aly888
Lana-Boo's mummy & WTT #2
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If you aren't comfortable with your OH having a stripper at his stag/bachelors party then really the only thing you can do is talk to him about it. Tell him you wouldn't feel comfortable knowing that was going to happen. Make it clear that it's not about trusting him etc but more of a betrayal. And let him tell you any worries he may have about your hen/bachelorette party
To be perfectly honest, films do make things worse. Strippers (in UK at least) are generally not attractive at all. Usually aging/scrawny/saggy women and not the 5'10 toned and tanned specimens that Hollywood would have us (or the men) believe, so if he did have one there's no doubt he'd be bitterly disappointed.
Personally, where my OHs stag do is concerned, the less I know the better. I don't want to know what goes on or what he's having. Ignorance is bliss, and at the end of the day, if he wants to do the dirty with someone like that then me saying 'no' isn't going to stop him![Shrugg :shrug: :shrug:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/srug.gif)
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Personally, where my OHs stag do is concerned, the less I know the better. I don't want to know what goes on or what he's having. Ignorance is bliss, and at the end of the day, if he wants to do the dirty with someone like that then me saying 'no' isn't going to stop him
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