aviolet
Mommy of 1 angel
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hey does anyone ever wish they could've known what their baby would've looked like? Like.... what color hair... what color eyes... whose nose would they have, whose smile? These things are bothering me so much lately I want so many more details than I was allowed time to know I can only guess on the gender, whatever I feel in my gut, and knowing what he/she'd look like is just another one of those things where I personally need to feel it on some intuitive level to continue healing... when I get to heaven it won't matter if I'm right or wrong, but here on earth it'll help me cope if I have an idea of what my baby would look like.
A friend suggested I check out some hereditary studies.... seems brown hair is the most dominant (which I have, the father is blonde), so looking at our parents - if my mom had brown hair, and his dad had brown hair then it's likely our baby would've been a brunette, add to that our siblings and their hair and eye color... but my mom has blonde hair, I don't know about his dad, and my sister is blonde with blue eyes and the father's brothers are all blonde and blue eyed, so... I guess maybe that means it's a 50/50 shot for our baby to be either blonde or brunette? I'm not sure I got that right and it seems too complicated. plus I'm no closer to figuring out what she might have looked like... How annoying! lol.
oh and my cousin is a brunette, and her husband has brown hair, yet they had a little blonde boy with blue eyes so I guess brunettes don't always win out even when the odds are in their favor... just wish I could come up with something my heart will accept, even if it isn't right... I want a picture of her in my mind, it's so important to me that it just feel right...
A friend suggested I check out some hereditary studies.... seems brown hair is the most dominant (which I have, the father is blonde), so looking at our parents - if my mom had brown hair, and his dad had brown hair then it's likely our baby would've been a brunette, add to that our siblings and their hair and eye color... but my mom has blonde hair, I don't know about his dad, and my sister is blonde with blue eyes and the father's brothers are all blonde and blue eyed, so... I guess maybe that means it's a 50/50 shot for our baby to be either blonde or brunette? I'm not sure I got that right and it seems too complicated. plus I'm no closer to figuring out what she might have looked like... How annoying! lol.
oh and my cousin is a brunette, and her husband has brown hair, yet they had a little blonde boy with blue eyes so I guess brunettes don't always win out even when the odds are in their favor... just wish I could come up with something my heart will accept, even if it isn't right... I want a picture of her in my mind, it's so important to me that it just feel right...