light hearted ttc

[mzswizz]

My doc told me it takes 7-10 days to be out my system. I first tested yesterday at 10 days past trigger and today at 11 days past trigger.

 

[hello_kitty]

The bottom one is much darker than yesterday's.

Ashley - I will be trying my best not to co sleep with the new baby once he/she is here. We even bought a play yard in advance so he/she can sleep in it. Zachary might still be sleeping with us or we will just let him sleep in the crib that we got for him but he never used. My dh thought I would be co sleeping with them so he bought a futon for himself.

 

[mzswizz]

Thanks ladies. I might just wait until tuesday to test again.

 

[AC1987]

Ok according to my eyes, I would say the test looks about the same, I can't really tell if one of them is lighter or darker, just that I do see a line in both. It is faint however... so either its the trigger remaining.. or its the start of an early bfp. I do hope it is a bfp


Lily, I don't plan to co sleep just to have the new one in its own bed in our room til it's sleeping through the night or atleast down to 1-2 feedings a night.

 

[mzswizz]

Thanks Ashley. Im going to wait until tuesday and if its darker than it may be the start of the bfp and if its lighter then i will know its been the trigger.

 

[mzswizz]

well both are completely dried. dont know which is which but they both are definitely the same line so maybe it was just darker before it dried.

 

[AC1987]

They look the same to me too... like I said I think waiting a day or two and retesting will give you a better idea however reeeeaalllyyyyy hoping this is it!!!

 

[mzswizz]

yeah im going to wait until tuesday before testing again.

 

[sg0720]

Patrice I can definitely see the line without squinting fx for you

And thank you ladies

 

[mzswizz]

thanks sarina

 

[ricschick]

nooooo Tuesday is too far away lol xx

 

[mzswizz]

Lol rics! It feels that way.

My cycle has really flown. Today im 11dpo/dpiui. I am not testing today. I told dh that most likely im just going to go in for betas on friday or monday if af doesnt show. Might test tomorrow but i dont know yet. Already broke between buying groceries and buying tests and paying bills. DH gets paid friday so i can buy a frer then. Didnt experience any spotting and usually mu bbs hurt like a week or later in my cycle before AF and my bbs arent hurting at all. Now thats the only thing different to me because i always experience that. Also, i keep experiencing on and off cramping in both ovary sides so i have no clue whats going on. Today im 12dpt so hoping that the trigger is out my system. Thats why i want to wait til tuesday because i will be 13dpt. But we shall see what happens.

 

[AC1987]

The only thing I noticed before my bfp's both time is the cramping BEFORE my period actually came, because usually I'd cramp once I was on it.. but for it to happen like a day before it was due made me think something was up.

Ugh Patrice i'm sooo hoping this is it for you!


AFM... monday blues.. well more like dealing with DD after her sugar induced weekend with in laws... they took her to walmart on sunday morning and fed her half a bag of candy *sigh* I wasn't there or I woulda stopped it. I don't know why they'd think that was a good idea...
And then I don't know if its hormones or what, but I'm a little annoyed at one thing my mom plans on doing when she comes... she says she will watch the new baby and just bring it to me for feeding. But its like I want bonding time with my newborn, it goes to fast and I won't get that time back. So I guess I'll see how I feel and just put my foot down if I feel she is being too controlling. Mostly its Cassidy that I'm gonna need help with, and house cleaning cooking etc.

 

[mzswizz]

Yes, im the same way. I start cramping once AF starts so we shall see. And hopefully your mom will help with Cassidy and housework etc. i agree that you should have your bonding time with baby and not only be there for the feeding. Also, dont you just hate when people give kids sugar knowing that you will have to deal with them being hyper later?! Hopefully, all is well now.

 

[magicwhisper]

maybe tell your mum you will need more help with your older lo and housework than the baby

 

[AC1987]

I tried and she basically told me that I will not be up for it and should just spend my time in bed, which I plan to, BUT I want to have time with my baby too.. I dont just want to be a feeding source Like I mean its not like I'll be like no you can't hold my baby or anything, and I'm sure I'll be fine for a break. But what shes talking is taking the baby for the entire night. Oh well its still a while away.

Omg nooo Cassidy is SOOOO miserable today, I think sugar withdrawl... but goodness I hafta deal with alot of tears.

 

[magicwhisper]

when she sees you taking care of baby she will realize you wont need help with baby but with everything else

oh no poor you

 

[mzswizz]

here is the test dried and out the case....the bottom is today's test

 

[AC1987]

might just be my eyes but it looks a little lighter but maybe cause you didn't use fmu? Do you think you'll test again tomorrow or wait til after when you expect AF?

 

[ricschick]

Still see all the lines!! Fx