light hearted ttc

[ricschick]

Oh wow do u really not?! Im totally seeing it irl but now im wondering if im just crazy if u guys cant!

I can see faint lines on my phone, the pictures wont enlarge on my computer for some reason, very annoying!
how many dpo are you? x

 

[josephine3]

10 dpo (roughly) we only dtd on xmas eve and im counting ov as tuesday so thats pretty slim odds but considering we used condoms too it'd be a miracle! I really am seeing something my end on so many tests but i just dont trust myself!!

 

[skyraaa]

How u feeling now jose? Do u hav any more symptoms? Hope u r pregnant u can join me x

 

[josephine3]

My main symptom has been no symptoms lol. I get a lot of pain after ov and all sorts of weird twinges and popping feelings due to pcos which has led me to think i was preg before but i have no pain at all this month. I have a very hot face and positive opks since cd17!!

 

[skyraaa]

My main symptom has been no symptoms lol. I get a lot of pain after ov and all sorts of weird twinges and popping feelings due to pcos which has led me to think i was preg before but i have no pain at all this month. I have a very hot face and positive opks since cd17!!

Tbh like u said if u were preg this month it wud b amazing as u used condoms lol, I'm thinking u need to sit OH down and tell him how u feel try talking him around to trying for another or maybe put it more gently go for let's not try not prevent see what happens obviously u will make sure u dtd around ov gl hunx

 

[ricschick]

jo how does dh feel about another baby?

 

[josephine3]

Terrible! As u kno we're not in the best place right now as a couple let alone to have a new baby hes dead against it! I would love one but kno its not sensible to right now. I am really thinking i could be still tho. But im probly wrong its just.. some of theae tests really do have lines lol

 

[josephine3]

Im not telling him until i have a line i kno for sure he will see!

 

[AC1987]

Rics, I can't bring myself to ask him to move out, because I feel like he hasn't really done anything to deserve that.
Anyways he has decided to again come back to our bedroom, no idea why.
Yes my oldest is now asking me questions that I can't answer, like she asked me "Does Daddy even love you?" "Does Daddy love me?" "Why do you and Daddy not hold hands like other people?" "Did you and daddy ever kiss?" and I can't answer.... like I know she is sensing things.

You wouldn't believe it but my dh asked me AGAIN if I wouldn't mind being pregnant... Part of me as terrible as it sounds feels like saying FINE and then banning sex through the whole pregnancy. But its like if he treats me badly again through pregnancy I don't know if I can handle that again.

Also I'm now stressed out about my family, my dad called me yesterday asking if I can come up to Canada early to look after my mom.

 

[skyraaa]

Awww Ashley it sounds awful men just don't bloody think most of the time u gotta do what's best for u but another baby!! What is he thinking??? If u not getting on well now another baby ain't gonna make it any better will just bring more stress, think the best thing to do is sit him down and tell him how u feel tell him u can't carry on like this, I feel for u hun

 

[josephine3]

Hey ashley sounds like we're in a similar situation again with the ohs. Its awful i kno all i can say is i hope things improve!

 

[AC1987]

I know it need to improve but I don't know how... like I feel zero attraction to him right now. So a part of me feels super guilty... like how do you tell someone you no longer love them??
I feel like me and him barely gets along now, I mean we can be civil but that is IT.
And yea I feel like a baby right now would be terrible. He was such a jerk during my last pregnancy...
Even now, he keeps claiming he "loves me" through letters but to my face he can't say anything positive! And his actions show otherwise too...
But its hard when I have no support from my family

 

[ricschick]

ac do you want to make the marriage work? or do you think your done? maybe try marriage counciling? xx

 

[hello_kitty]

Turn of events - I am in the 2 ww (sigh).

 

[skyraaa]

Turn of events - I am in the 2 ww (sigh).

Woops I take it that wasn't ment to happen!! U can join me if u are lol Hope u get the out come u want.

 

[josephine3]

Ooh lily he must have been in a good mood?! Are u using any contraception?

 

[josephine3]

Ashley i know what u mean about the actions not matching the words too! Do u get any welfare or benefits if u split? I feel lucky in the uk to be able to be financially single if i need to be and keep a roof over our heads!

 

[hello_kitty]

It was more me being in a good mood. I usually push him away but dont know what got into me this morning. Im not using any contraceptives. Its been at least half a year since we last dtd. We both agreed its not good timing, not because of our relationship but we have other plans until october. Im even considering taking plan B, but i will think about it overnight.

 

[ricschick]

lily where are you in your cycle? x

 

[hello_kitty]

My cycles are wacky claire. If i were to average it out, i have a 34 day cycle and today i am cd 22.