Some women don't get them at all, so don't worry if you can't feel them.
I was at work today so laying down wasn't an option. For awhile, I was having them every 10 minutes or so and it didnt matter if I was sitting down, standing, walking, whatever. Standing made them way worse though. I took my lunch and sat for awhile and had a snack and that seemed to help. I got some bad financial news, so I wonder if they were stressed related.