Add me, please?
I'm due October 14th with a little girl.
A little late to the thread, but thanks in advance!
Glad you are ok Maze, what a tough time you are having this pregnancy you poor thing!
Lownthwaite sorry you are so upset hun. I've been told I'm too high risk for birthing pool too, for me it's because the pool is in the midwife led unit but I'll be down the corridor in the consultant led unit. Having said that it doesn't bother me. I can understand why you are so upset though. Is there another consultant you can see? I know you asked yours to speak with her senior but might it be an idea to speak to a different consultant yourself and put your points across?
I've had an awful couple of days. Went to my GP Tuesday afternoon as had been feeling breathless. I'm being monitored for my asthma and we had discussed changing inhalers only the week before and was told to go back if I want to do this. So went in and said I think I either need a different inhaler or possibly need stronger iron tablets as anaemic (only very slightly now) and I obviously needed something to help with breathing. GP was concerned because my chest was hurting too (which it always does when asthma is bad) and have had some palpitations. She rang around hospitals, antenatal didn't want me because it was medical rather than pregnancy related and medical didn't want me because I'm pregnant so she sent me to A&E with a letter saying I needed to be urgently seen my cardiac specialist. To cut a long story short even though they kept saying all my obs were good and they didn't think it was anything they thought I should be admitted due to increased risk of Pulmonary Embolism in pregnant. Ended up on medical admissions ward which was full of old women who had dementia and kept pooing their beds. Spent two nights in this hellhole. Kept being monitored on ECG's and things, they kept saying I'm a picture of health. Had a chest xray after a lot of deliberations as I was so scared of harming my baby and this came back clear. Last night they came to see me to say even though I had basically passed all tests with flying colours and my symptoms are more asthma/panic attack kind of symptoms rather than PE they wanted to do a final test with me today which would involve a lot of radiation and they told me the risks. The main one that concerned me was that the baby could have a 1 in 150,000 chance of developing childhood cancer up to the age of 15. I know this risk is minimal but to say I've avoided anything that could potentially do me harm throughout the whole pregnancy I was devastated as basically having to make a decision, do I risk my own life and subsequently the babies life, or do I do something which is reality is totally unnecessary and put Dylan at risk for the future. My platelets are still up and down, they were 139 on Monday, by Tuesday they were back down to 112 so I felt this supported that I was low risk for clotting anyway. So again to try and cut a long story short (sorry this is ending up being long anyway!) I did a lot of reading on the internet last night, spoke to hubby, my mum and MIL and decided not to go ahead with the further tests today. I am potentially taking a massive risk but I am keeping an eye on my symptoms. They said if I do have a clot it must be very small not to have been picked up on the other tests, but the dr I saw this morning did seem to think it was probably my asthma more than anything. I had to discharge myself this morning as essentially I was going against medical advice but they did not seem overly concerned and have said I can have a 24 ECG fitted as an outpatient if required. I then saw my pregnancy consultant who said she thought I'd done the right thing, as does my midwife. So I am happy with my decision even though it is a risk. If I do have to go back in though I am going to insist on being on a specialist ward as the last 2 nights have been horrendous. I wasn't allowed my cubicle curtains shut last night because the other patients were confused so they needed to be able to see them all, at one point both ladies either side pooed the bed and the smell was awful, and the lady to my left thought the cannula in the back of her hand was her glasses and that they were going to be crushed in her bed, she was getting really aggressive with the staff then tried to get in my bed while I was still in it! Never never again. I feel sorry for those poor people being in that state but I really don't think it was fair on me either to put me on a ward like that!
Anyway on a lighter note, consultant seems pleased with baby's progress. They are not going to induce me as this could aggravate asthma further, but I am having a sweep at 39 weeks so hopefully that will get things moving! Woop woop!
Sorry for long post, hope everyone is well today
It was just because it was the emergency admissions ward and they didn’t think I’d be in more than one night. I asked the next day if they would move me to a ward but again they didn’t expect it to be more than another night. I’m sure if I hadn’t discharged myself I would have still been there tonight as nothing moved quickly in that place to say it was a supposed emergency. Luckily on the first night I had no idea how long I’d be there, or how bad it was going to be! Sounds like we are all started to fall to bits now! The sooner these babies are out the better. Will keep my fingers crossed for you sis rose that your BP is ok and they induce you at 37 weeks. I think tbh you prob just have small babies. I was 5lb and my brother 4lb and we are perfectly healthy and my bro is now over 6ft! Everyone can’t be the same size after all!Broody - Wow, that sounds like an eventful two days on the ward and sounds horrible! Did they say why they admitted you to a ward like that and not on some kind of pregnancy related ward?
Sisterrose, if your baby is slow on growing, wouldn't it have made sense to let her bake as long as possible instead of inducing? or is she just better on theoutside than inside at 37 weeks and beyond?
I've been quiet as well I have been trying to keep up though. You ladies have a lot going on and I'm so sorry about some of you having such an awful time.
Maze I'm glad you are ok for the most part. You are really having a hard time. You're such a trooper.
Broody I'm so sorry you have had such a nightmare of the past few days. I think you made the right choice in not getting that test and I think you will be fine because you are really on top of things.
Low I'm so sorry about your birth plan. Can you look for a different doctor or hospital?
Sister rose I hate going to the doctor period. I can't imagine having to go so often. I'm glad your scans and blood work look good.
I hope everyone is doing as well as can be expected as we approach the end. Babies will be here soon!
Also welcome to all our newbies