Emeralmoon - we got a barely used icandy apple off eBay that the maxi cosi goes into so easily. And was so much cheaper than buying new! I bought a few packs of baby wipes and bits in the tesco baby event. We're not buying many nappies because of the differen sizes. We'll get a couple of packs of pampers new baby, they go up to 14lbs and my friend who's just had a little boy said they were the best she found. Instead we're buying gift cards everytime we go to tesco or sainsburys. Only for like £10 each time but so once baby is here and we know what we need, we've got the money put aside specifically of that.
Maze, sounds like the perfect car seat for you but omg, car seats are really expensive there!! Lol.
Broodymrs, I hope your brother figures out what he wants/needs to do and steps up.