Its mainly debt its not a huge amount.. around 1200 and 700 on store cards
but because end January i got fraud on my card and i didn't even know until i
tried to pay on my store card payment and it wouldn't accept it.. so i then re
tried about a week later and it still didn't so i checked my statements and loads
of money had been taken.. it got repaid but i had to wait around 3 weeks for them
to finalise the fraud investigation and send out a new card etc it seemt to take longer
then it should of.. but i then just missed my 2nd payment .. and its made arrears and
i cannot pay my minimum amount on my store cards as they have built up now
The next thing it was for is deposit for a house as me and my partner need to move
quite quick as we got told we need to and ended up having to move back with our
parents sudden which isn't ideal sharing a small room with a 3yr old
... but
with the debt gone out of control because of the trouble with my card we have slim
chance of saving a deposit as im wanting to pay them off before anything else and not
get any worse
I know a loan will put more debt but the amount to repay monthly is do-able for us
but we have tried everywhere and we can't get accepted so i think that is the final
answer tbh just going to have to save every penny and get it sorted
(And if anyone thinks "Why you ttc when your in a bad situation" ... we both want
to but obviously now things have got worse we are thinking twice after this cycle
giving it a break for a few months to sort it all hopefully)