Lonely...

[staycutee]

i know how you feel believe me, my supposed "best friend" stopped talking to me when i got pregnant and turned into a complete bitch. my other few friends seem to be busy all the time, too busy to meet me! i seem to hardly speak to them now and its upsetting but i guess they were never real friends if they couldnt care less about me when im going through the hardest thing ive ever been through.

it also angers me that fob thinks he can go round living life as normal, his parents dont even KNOW anything about the baby!! i see his facebook updates things like "*** has taken the which potato are you quiz" and i think WTF! he is sitting there like a child doing nothing, taking drugs and being a fool and here i am all alone.

i think lots of us feel like this unfortunately but at least we haev babyandbump! without it itd be so much worse i think xx

 

[lou_w34]

I guess they never were really friends if they can bugger off so quickly

Thats the same with my FOBs parents, they dont even no their going to be grandparents! Are you going to tell them when babies born?? I was considering it, as they have a right to know blah blah blah, but then i think why should i?? Their son should grow some balls and do it himself... plus a really selfish part of me thinks if they do no about her, they will expect all sorts of access and try to push me to do things i dont want... ahhhh so confusing!

Haha me too! Though i sometimes think its worrying how much time i spend on here

xx

 

[staycutee]

I don't think I will tell them even though I am tempted! It just annoys me that he doesn't even seem to be aware that I COULD if I wanted to.. he doesn't seem to fear it happening or anything, it doesn't matter to him at all I guess. I don't want him/them having access and I can just see they would somehow demand it and it scares me :/ xxxx

 

[lou_w34]

I dont think i will either...
At first i said i would, and now im not too sure...
If i did tell them at the moment i think it would only be out of spite, and to get him in as much trouble as possible, which isnt really a good enough reason to tell them.

Mine doesnt seem to fear it either, i guess he knows i wont tell them, which is fine by me.

Scares me too, especially as he has done sod all to deserve it, ive told him he has one chance and one chance only... but he's already backing out of it by saying i have to travel to see him with her, whereas he can jog on if he thinks thats happening, he either comes down here, or doesnt bother at all.

Adding his parents in the mix will just complicate things further in my opinon, might sound selfish to some people, but its not up to us to tell them.

xxx

 

[suzanne108]

Awww Lou...I've only just seen this...I hope you're OK

I've only got 2 close friends too, they live round here and one of them is soooo supportive which is good but the other one couldn't care less ha, she is the least maternal person I know and thinks I'm stupid for having a baby!!

This is my typical day.....Jeremy Kyle, This Morning, Loose Women, Lunch, B&B for a few hours, Daily Cooks, Dinner, Corrie/Eastenders,whatver else is on TV, B&B again then bed HAHA! I used to hate tele and I'm now a complete ADDICT!!!!! Does that make you feel any better?!!

xxx

 

[staycutee]

I dont think i will either...
At first i said i would, and now im not too sure...
If i did tell them at the moment i think it would only be out of spite, and to get him in as much trouble as possible, which isnt really a good enough reason to tell them.

Mine doesnt seem to fear it either, i guess he knows i wont tell them, which is fine by me.

Scares me too, especially as he has done sod all to deserve it, ive told him he has one chance and one chance only... but he's already backing out of it by saying i have to travel to see him with her, whereas he can jog on if he thinks thats happening, he either comes down here, or doesnt bother at all.

Adding his parents in the mix will just complicate things further in my opinon, might sound selfish to some people, but its not up to us to tell them.

xxx

Exactly! I don't care if i get called selfish anymore because I am actually being the opposite. He isn't going on the birth certificate either because I just don't think he deserves to (and he wouldn't even if I begged him). ugh men!!
xx

 

[lou_w34]

Awww Lou...I've only just seen this...I hope you're OK

I've only got 2 close friends too, they live round here and one of them is soooo supportive which is good but the other one couldn't care less ha, she is the least maternal person I know and thinks I'm stupid for having a baby!!

This is my typical day.....Jeremy Kyle, This Morning, Loose Women, Lunch, B&B for a few hours, Daily Cooks, Dinner, Corrie/Eastenders,whatver else is on TV, B&B again then bed HAHA! I used to hate tele and I'm now a complete ADDICT!!!!! Does that make you feel any better?!!

xxx

Yes!!! lots better! my day is pretty much the same lol

 

[lou_w34]

I dont think i will either...
At first i said i would, and now im not too sure...
If i did tell them at the moment i think it would only be out of spite, and to get him in as much trouble as possible, which isnt really a good enough reason to tell them.

Mine doesnt seem to fear it either, i guess he knows i wont tell them, which is fine by me.

Scares me too, especially as he has done sod all to deserve it, ive told him he has one chance and one chance only... but he's already backing out of it by saying i have to travel to see him with her, whereas he can jog on if he thinks thats happening, he either comes down here, or doesnt bother at all.

Adding his parents in the mix will just complicate things further in my opinon, might sound selfish to some people, but its not up to us to tell them.

xxx

Exactly! I don't care if i get called selfish anymore because I am actually being the opposite. He isn't going on the birth certificate either because I just don't think he deserves to (and he wouldn't even if I begged him). ugh men!!
xx

Im kinda fed up of being referred to as the selfish one!! If we are selfish id love to know what they are?? I can think of a few names lol...

Same as my fob, he's not going on, i dont trust him, he's too lazy to come sign it anyways!

They are tossers! How bitter do i sound! ha!

 

[thechaosismex]

I dont think i will either...
At first i said i would, and now im not too sure...
If i did tell them at the moment i think it would only be out of spite, and to get him in as much trouble as possible, which isnt really a good enough reason to tell them.

Mine doesnt seem to fear it either, i guess he knows i wont tell them, which is fine by me.

Scares me too, especially as he has done sod all to deserve it, ive told him he has one chance and one chance only... but he's already backing out of it by saying i have to travel to see him with her, whereas he can jog on if he thinks thats happening, he either comes down here, or doesnt bother at all.

Adding his parents in the mix will just complicate things further in my opinon, might sound selfish to some people, but its not up to us to tell them.

xxx

Exactly! I don't care if i get called selfish anymore because I am actually being the opposite. He isn't going on the birth certificate either because I just don't think he deserves to (and he wouldn't even if I begged him). ugh men!!
xx

Im kinda fed up of being referred to as the selfish one!! If we are selfish id love to know what they are?? I can think of a few names lol...

Same as my fob, he's not going on, i dont trust him, he's too lazy to come sign it anyways!

They are tossers! How bitter do i sound! ha!

I'm hijacking your convo but my fob wont be going on birth certificate either! hes a complete waste of space (where do we find them eh?!)

also to reiterate how sad and lonely I am- I got excited earlier when my dad asked if i wanted to go to tesco with him Most excitement I have had all week

 

[lou_w34]

I dont no where we find them!! I just wish we could send them away again!! haha

Haha i literally love going tesco/asda with my mum when we go, as sad as it sounds, but its guaranteed to get me out the house at least once a week!!! Oh that makes me sound such a loser! lol

xx

 

[thechaosismex]

Hahahaha sad.. but allowed! otherwise we'd just wind up sitting watching Jezza Kyle all day and shouting at the tv, and never leaving the house!

 

[lou_w34]

Oh deary me, i really need to stop watching jeremy kyle!! But the people on there make me feel better about my own life!! haha!!

 

[suzanne108]

Oh deary me, i really need to stop watching jeremy kyle!! But the people on there make me feel better about my own life!! haha!!

I couldn't watch today it was too sad with those poorly children....

Oh and guess where I went today..........to the chemist!!!! Jealous? it was rather exciting, I saw people and everything!!!!

 

[thechaosismex]

I am jealous of your chemist outing!

 

[suzanne108]

Hehe.....sad isn't it!

Tomorrow I get to go to Tesco.....I am one lucky girl

Admittedly that'll be it until my midwife appointment on Tuesday!!!!!

 

[staycutee]

haha at least we have the x factor to look forward to tomorrow eh! xx

 

[suzanne108]

haha at least we have the x factor to look forward to tomorrow eh! xx

YES!

Then again on Sunday with I'm a Celeb afterwards!!!

 

[teal]

X factor will be the highlight of my weekends up until Christmas time! xx

 

[lou_w34]

I have toys r us to look forward to today!! Ill get to play with toys and everything!! Hope your not too jealous!! haha

And i was very jealous of your chemist outing! I never watch j kyle when its sad, i only think i watch it for the arguments! haha

 

[suzanne108]

Awwwww I love Toys R Us!!!! VERRRRY jealous

Yeah Jezza at its best is lie detector and DNA tests!