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[cherylanne]

Hi i just wanted to say hi to everyone and introduce myself. I had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago, we have a 3 yr old and although the pregnancy with her was not exactly easy this has come as such a shock to us both. I found this forum to try to talk to others about what i'm experiencing. We hadn't told many people about the pregnancy as it was early days so i now feel a bit lonely and lost.

 

[charveyron]

Oh sweety I know what you are going through, I had a MC at the end of March, and it is very tough, theres not really alot that anyone can say to make it better, but we are all here if you want to talk, I also found that although I had the support of my partner he didn't really understand how I was feeling - I didn't know how to talk to him about it, try not to bottle things up and if you can talk to your OH then do.. feel free to PM me if you want to chat

 

[Omi]

Oh, bunny..so sorry for what you're going through..i know its tough and feeling alone doesnt help. Our oh's, as lovely as they are, are not going through it the same way so its understandable you want someone to talk to who understand what you're feeling and what you're going through- and believe me- we do!!

Please take us up on our offers to pm us if you wanna chat, rant or just get things of your chest. Whatever you're feeling is so, so normal and believe me.. it doesnt feel like it now, but you will get over this, but in time....

Be kind to yourself and eachother, do whatever you want, what you feel like , tlc and r&r is what you need, and feel free to pm me if you wanna shoulder, hun!!

, Omi xxx

 

[Freya]

Just wanted to echo the replies of the other girls. You are not alone in this and many of us know exactly how you feel without even having to ask. It's a horrible, horrible experience and so very isolating as know one around you knew! However.... if they did know, you can bet your bottom dollar that many would say the wrong thing anyway!!!! Eeeek!!!

Just take your time with how you feel and don't give yourself a hard time.... go with the flow.

thinking of you xxxx

 

[superp123]

Lots of hun. I find myself in a similar situation. We also decided it best not to tell everyone this time around. So I can really relate to how you're feeling right now. I just want to repeat what has been said, to say, if you need us we are here.
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[Logiebear]

I am so sorry for your loss hun. We suffered a m/c in May and it was our 4th child. It is never easy to come to terms with this and I think it some thing you never get over completely. I hope you find some confort in sharing your experiences with others on here, I have found it helps.

 

[wishes]

Im afraid the best way to get through this horrible time is to muddle through one step at a time. Only you know whats best for you hun.

We are all here and have been through similar stories, so dont feel like you are ever bugging any of us for advice or pointless chat. Post or pm and im sure any of us would do all we can to try to help or take your mind off things.

As much as you kind of dont want it to, it does get easier to deal with.

 

[NikiJJones]

Hello and so sorry to hear about your loss. This forum is a great place to be though. I MCed just over a month ago and the girls here have been so supportive. I understand the pain you must be feeling right now, but believe me, it does, very gradually, get easier day by day.
Sending you lots of and I'm here if you want to chat.
xxxx

 

[JulesW]

Hi - I'm really sorry to hear what has happened. What I can say is that if you want to feel less lonely and have some answers and support, this is a really good place to be with loads of lovely lovely people.
I came on here a week ago having never been onto a forum of any kind before and was very nervous. I found out last Tue and am not due at the hospital for any kind of follow up til Tue coming. I had no answers, felt completely and utterly alone and had no idea what to expect.
From coming on here, I have had the chance to hear others experiences, and for me, the experiences of other women who have been through the same thing has been more helpful than anything. I have received information about what to expect as I had no idea and certainly have been told nothing since my scan last week. More importantly, I've had the chance to chat to people whose experiences have been so similar to mine that I don't feel so alone, or that what has happened is so unusual.
I would say, message those people whose experiences seem similar to yours because they will be so supportive and help you out... I'm really sorry to hear about your loss but I hope you find support and friendship here like I have done in the last couple of days because it honestly does help. Lots of love x x x x x

 

[shmoo75]

I am so sorry for your loss and sending you lots of I had a m/c at the end of May and, eventhough one of my bestfriends had a m/c 4yrs ago and she has been great, I still found this forum one the best helps. No matter what time of day or night it is there is always someone on here that can help or, just chat if that is what you need. We are all here for you so, if you feel the need feel free to pm any of us at any time. Thinking of you hun

 

[Ang]

Hi, Im so sorry for your loss. I m.c on 18th May and people will tell you that time is a healer and it definately is. Just take one day at a time and it will get better for you. This forum really helped me get through it as there is always someone there for you. Take care xx