Hi everyone! I have been using this forum for awhile (it helped me get through my cycle of ICSI) and am now looking for advice for a friend. She has been trying to get pregnant for about a year now (she is 32, OH is a few years younger) and is having no luck. Her OH had surgery when he was younger due to undescended testicles (which is the same thing that happened with my hubby and the reason we had to use IVF) and she is worried that is the reason they arent getting pregnant. The issue is that he is refusing to get tested and I think its because he feels that its makes him less of a man (he tells her that its not something a man talks about when she brings it up) and wont listen when she tells him how important it is to her and that its pretty common to have issues with fertility. I'm looking for advice for her, if any of you out there had stubborn OH's that you had to really work on to go and get tested. What did you do to make it clear to him that you were serious and it was really important to you? Thanks!!!