looking for buddies who had miscarriage in april and BFP in May due date January 2014

[Mumy2]

hello ladies;
I had a miscarriage in april at 6 weeks, and decided to try straight away and not wait for my first AF, I counted on BBT charting to detect ovulation. I ovulated on the 5th of May and got my implantation bleeding (brown spotting) at 12 DPO.
At 14 DPO got my positive BFP, yay though I am soooo scared that this pregnancy will end in miscarriage.
I have already a daughter who is 3 years. And really looking for another baby.
I love sharing my photos of BFP and see how dark it gets and share symptoms.
Here are mines, top one is 14 DPO and bottom one is today at 16 DPO and AF is due Today (god forbid, plls stay away)



can't wait to have buddies to accompany me on this scary journey till we are safe.
god bless

 

[hopefulnewbie]

If I make it through the next two weeks I can buddy up with you, I had a MC in March, had my normal AF and got my BFP this month, I will be six weeks Saturday based on LMP but yesterday started spotting brown, today it's turning red

Last time, when it turned red I had the most awful cramps, I don't right now, so I'm still positive that it might just be something else . .

My Dr needs a urine sample to confirm pregnancy before I can get booked in etc. I wanted to wait until six weeks and see if I was still pregnant, so will see how this weekend goes and hand in my urine sample next week. Looks like I might need an early scan to figure out what is happening but they will see nothing before six weeks anyway so right now trying not to panic. My birthday tomorrow aswell.

You're tests look awesome! I got a faint positive at three weeks, another faint at four weeks and a darker one and a digi after my AF was def late. Crossing my fingers and toes that everything works out for you, congrats!

Editing that my boobs are not sore anymore today which worries me but I know that these symptoms can come and go. So far I've not had any MS but I've been suffering from nausea, felt very nauseous last before bed and thought I might actually throw up which kind of make me hopeful that the spotting was nothing but we shall see eh x

 

[Mumy2]

If I make it through the next two weeks I can buddy up with you, I had a MC in March, had my normal AF and got my BFP this month, I will be six weeks Saturday based on LMP but yesterday started spotting brown, today it's turning red

Last time, when it turned red I had the most awful cramps, I don't right now, so I'm still positive that it might just be something else . .

My Dr needs a urine sample to confirm pregnancy before I can get booked in etc. I wanted to wait until six weeks and see if I was still pregnant, so will see how this weekend goes and hand in my urine sample next week. Looks like I might need an early scan to figure out what is happening but they will see nothing before six weeks anyway so right now trying not to panic. My birthday tomorrow aswell.

You're tests look awesome! I got a faint positive at three weeks, another faint at four weeks and a darker one and a digi after my AF was def late. Crossing my fingers and toes that everything works out for you, congrats!

Editing that my boobs are not sore anymore today which worries me but I know that these symptoms can come and go. So far I've not had any MS but I've been suffering from nausea, felt very nauseous last before bed and thought I might actually throw up which kind of make me hopeful that the spotting was nothing but we shall see eh x

Hello hopeful,
First of all huge congratulation my dear, and I am so sorry for your loss. And happy birthday mama to be
I perfectly understand your worries, It is so hard to enjoy this pregnancy and be happy as other ladies.
Now as for your symptoms, definetly spotting is a normal pregnancy sign, with my daughter I spotted brown then red till I was 12 weeks. As long as it is not heavy or comes with severe cramps or backache.
Breast soreness tell me about it, it is my only sign for me so far and I have them for one day very sore and another day absolutely nothing. So yes it comes and go.
No morning sickness so far and I didn't have it with my daughter so don't know yet, but trust me I will be over the moon if I have it , hahahaha crazy ha!
I do fell nausea occasionally but nothing bad yet.
Great you are ahead of me, soooo happy to have you, I will keep you in my prayers for a sticky bean for both of us.
I will post later my 18 dpo test which I think is not as darker as the last one, but I am still bbt charting and it is still high. No cramps as well which is good
My miscarriage happened at 21 DPO, I am 18 DPO, sooo scared I will not pass that line again, but praying a lot I don't get through same thing again.
Feel free to write anything in your head, you have me now, hahahaha, lots of hugs and blessings!!

 

[hopefulnewbie]

Hello hopeful,
First of all huge congratulation my dear, and I am so sorry for your loss. And happy birthday mama to be
I perfectly understand your worries, It is so hard to enjoy this pregnancy and be happy as other ladies.
Now as for your symptoms, definetly spotting is a normal pregnancy sign, with my daughter I spotted brown then red till I was 12 weeks. As long as it is not heavy or comes with severe cramps or backache.
Breast soreness tell me about it, it is my only sign for me so far and I have them for one day very sore and another day absolutely nothing. So yes it comes and go.
No morning sickness so far and I didn't have it with my daughter so don't know yet, but trust me I will be over the moon if I have it , hahahaha crazy ha!
I do fell nausea occasionally but nothing bad yet.
Great you are ahead of me, soooo happy to have you, I will keep you in my prayers for a sticky bean for both of us.
I will post later my 18 dpo test which I think is not as darker as the last one, but I am still bbt charting and it is still high. No cramps as well which is good
My miscarriage happened at 21 DPO, I am 18 DPO, sooo scared I will not pass that line again, but praying a lot I don't get through same thing again.
Feel free to write anything in your head, you have me now, hahahaha, lots of hugs and blessings!!

I'm sorry for your loss too, I honestly wasn't sure if I'd be ready to try again right away but it turned out that I was and hubby was really keen, I guess you could say it makes us more determined

Thank you for the kind words and birthday wishes!

It is difficult to relax and enjoy it, I think even more so right now, I want to get past that point where things ended before, that's one milestone right!

At the moment the spotting is only when I wipe, and is actually easing off now and then. I just wiped again and it's very slight and much more watery than before which is a good sign. Occassionally though there does seem to be little tiny tiny dark clots, the first one I saw this morning was dry but the other seems wet. sorry for tmi

Had a little cramping this pm but not severe, I am still trying to stay positive!

I'll keep you in my thoughts too, I have a feeling your bean will stick this time! Me and DH even sense I have a boy and it might be naive but we have a name too!

I'm not soo good at keeping up with the threads here, especially when lots of us are posting in one thread, I loose track and get overwhelmed! I lurk a lot but will try and check in a few times a week and keep in touch

 

[Mumy2]

Happy that bleeding is less and only when you wipe, that's great sign.
With my miscarriage it was a huge dip in BBT followed with bad cramps and heavy bleeding, was like a period. The spotting you are having is very far to be a bad sign.
Guesss what? I am hoping I will have a boy,, I have a princess so will be great to have a boy. I got a name as well . you are not the only crazy one here.
My husband doesn't know I am pregnant only because I don't want him to worry as last time, I had many early miscarriages and everytime he gets his hopes up and then boooom.
I will tell him when I am 7 or 8 weeks unless MS decide to let him know before me, but will love to keep it secret as long as I can, I am thinking of a funny way to let him know the big news (if I make it through).
Please tell me if you see any progress in my test today 18 DPO, I am not sure I can see the line darker than 16 DPO.
Please feel free to write whenever you can, don't worry I will be here all the time for you. But try to enjoy your big day tomorrow mumy, have fun and forget about this whole journey.

 

[growlil1]

Hi ladies I thought I'd stop by and say Hi. To start off, sorry for both of your losses. I to had a mc in April. It was a chemical mc but I made the mistake telling everyone when I first got my bfp. This time around I've kept it inside my home. I'm hoping for a sticky bean this time but I'm a little worried since it took so long for me to get my BFP. I've read so many stories of ladies implanting late and it ending in a mc so I'm trying my hardest to stay positive. My symptoms are all over the place. I could have sworn I went to the bathroom a million times yesterday. Or at least that's what it felt like to me lol. Out of no where my face has broke out like crazy. Well heres to hoping and praying for very sticky beans for all of us.

 

[Mumy2]

Hi ladies I thought I'd stop by and say Hi. To start off, sorry for both of your losses. I to had a mc in April. It was a chemical mc but I made the mistake telling everyone when I first got my bfp. This time around I've kept it inside my home. I'm hoping for a sticky bean this time but I'm a little worried since it took so long for me to get my BFP. I've read so many stories of ladies implanting late and it ending in a mc so I'm trying my hardest to stay positive. My symptoms are all over the place. I could have sworn I went to the bathroom a million times yesterday. Or at least that's what it felt like to me lol. Out of no where my face has broke out like crazy. Well heres to hoping and praying for very sticky beans for all of us.

Hello growlil and welcome hon, so happy to have you as well.
I am joining your prayers for a sticky bean for all of us. I was so depressed this AM, as I started to feel very mild cramping and I too went to the bathroom hundreds of time checking, tomorrow is 20 dpo and that was the day I had miscarriage, so I was scared plus my breast soreness disappeared today just to make things more dramatic.
This afternoon the cramps stopped thanks god, and my mood is better, BBT is still very high which still giving me hope.
As for u growlil, it is absolutely not true that implanting late is not good,
I had IB on the day AF was due 12 DPO with my daughter and she is now a Healthy 3 years old princess. This time as well I had IB at 12 DPO but always for me is brown blood which means it is old blood and implantation wAs around 8 or 9 dpo ( had severe cramps those 2 days).
So don't worry about that, it doesn't mean anything.
Good ur keeping this pregnancy secret, I am doing the same till pass first trimester.
Let's keep faith and keep prayers for our little beans to stick and be healthy.
Hugs ladies

 

[hopefulnewbie]

I'll update when I know more but I think I am out again, it's my birthday today and my MC has started this evening it seems, spotting has changed from brown to pink and then started as a bleed on the third day just like last time. Increasing back and tummy cramps, typing through the tears, this sucks, two back to back

 

[hopefulnewbie]

Hi ladies I thought I'd stop by and say Hi. To start off, sorry for both of your losses. I to had a mc in April. It was a chemical mc but I made the mistake telling everyone when I first got my bfp. This time around I've kept it inside my home. I'm hoping for a sticky bean this time but I'm a little worried since it took so long for me to get my BFP. I've read so many stories of ladies implanting late and it ending in a mc so I'm trying my hardest to stay positive. My symptoms are all over the place. I could have sworn I went to the bathroom a million times yesterday. Or at least that's what it felt like to me lol. Out of no where my face has broke out like crazy. Well heres to hoping and praying for very sticky beans for all of us.

Wishing you all the best sweetie! I can relate on the bathroom trips lol. Really hoping for a very sticky bean for you!

 

[Mumy2]

I'll update when I know more but I think I am out again, it's my birthday today and my MC has started this evening it seems, spotting has changed from brown to pink and then started as a bleed on the third day just like last time. Increasing back and tummy cramps, typing through the tears, this sucks, two back to back

Ooooh noooo, I am soo sorry dear, that's horrible, Oh my god I can't even imagine how you feel right now, sending you lots of hugs and prayers, pllls don't loose hope, so sorry again.

 

[growlil1]

I'm starting to freak myself out. I started getting cramps that weren't like AF cramps but cramps that felt deep inside. I'm still feeling them and now I have just the tiniest bit of brown when I wipe. It's barely noticeable unless you were looking for it but I'm afraid it's going to be like last month. It started that way and ended up becoming red. I'm 2 days away from when it happened last month to so I'm real scared. I just can't imagine this happening two months in a row. Praying to god my lil bean sticks.

Hopeful I'm so sorry. Have you taken another test to make sure?

 

[Mumy2]

I'm starting to freak myself out. I started getting cramps that weren't like AF cramps but cramps that felt deep inside. I'm still feeling them and now I have just the tiniest bit of brown when I wipe. It's barely noticeable unless you were looking for it but I'm afraid it's going to be like last month. It started that way and ended up becoming red. I'm 2 days away from when it happened last month to so I'm real scared. I just can't imagine this happening two months in a row. Praying to god my lil bean sticks.

Hopeful I'm so sorry. Have you taken another test to make sure?

I hope it is nothing to worry about, brown is still normal even cramps, keep hope hon, did you test with same brand to see if lines are getting darker, drink lots of water it ease the cramps.
Today is CD 20, same day had my miscarriage, couldn't sleep proprely at night expecting cramps, but none.
As soon as I woke up I tested again and I think is the line is darker that last two days.
I know I am just stressing myself for nothing what will happen will happen! We have no control on it!
The darkening of aerola and boobs soreness are fading day after day, so who know what is happening right now???!!!!.
Le's join our prayers for a very very sticky bean.
Lots of hugs, pllls keep me updated.

 

[Mumy2]

Growlil let me know what you think, is today test darker???






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[growlil1]

Those test are for sure getting darker mumy.

Today I have more brown spotting. Just a little more than yesterday. Cramps are gone and the positive line is still very faint. I used the dollar general baby brand both times. I'm still not sure what to think. I guess time will only tell. Good luck ladies.

 

[Mumy2]

Those test are for sure getting darker mumy.

Today I have more brown spotting. Just a little more than yesterday. Cramps are gone and the positive line is still very faint. I used the dollar general baby brand both times. I'm still not sure what to think. I guess time will only tell. Good luck ladies.

Yes you are right only time will tell, I have you in my prayers and really hope our little beans are sticky ones.
Don't loose hope, spotting means nothing, wait again for few days and test or for a peace of mind go for blood tests if possible!
Sending you lots of hugs and love.

 

[growlil1]

How are those test coming along Mumy?

 

[hopefulnewbie]

I'm starting to freak myself out. I started getting cramps that weren't like AF cramps but cramps that felt deep inside. I'm still feeling them and now I have just the tiniest bit of brown when I wipe. It's barely noticeable unless you were looking for it but I'm afraid it's going to be like last month. It started that way and ended up becoming red. I'm 2 days away from when it happened last month to so I'm real scared. I just can't imagine this happening two months in a row. Praying to god my lil bean sticks.

Hopeful I'm so sorry. Have you taken another test to make sure?

I've definitely Miscarried, a HPT can show positive for up to two weeks or sometimes more after a MC, takes a while for the hormone to reduce.


I hope you both have successful stores this time ladies, thinking of you both!

 

[Mumy2]

How are those test coming along Mumy?

Hi growlil, I am not testing anymore, what will happen will happen, I am trying to get busy to forget a bit about my worries.
Today I entered week 6, no symptoms except constipation and swollen breasts, not sore anymore.
I have u in my thoughts and hope you get your BFP next cycle.

 

[AwesomeSauce]

I am here too. Miscarriage at six weeks march 27, bfp on mother's day in may. The craziest part is that i didn't know I was pg before that because we weren't trying and I bled HARD starting May 2, and spotted for two weeks after that. I thought it was my first Af post mc. I only testd because my bbt was still high. The march miscarriage was my third consecutive, so to say I am a little worried is an understatement. I went in for blood tests and hcg was rising nicely. I have had three scans and we have seen progression each time. I have another scan scheduled for next Friday and I hope we see I fetus and heart beat then.

 

[Mumy2]

I am here too. Miscarriage at six weeks march 27, bfp on mother's day in may. The craziest part is that i didn't know I was pg before that because we weren't trying and I bled HARD starting May 2, and spotted for two weeks after that. I thought it was my first Af post mc. I only testd because my bbt was still high. The march miscarriage was my third consecutive, so to say I am a little worried is an understatement. I went in for blood tests and hcg was rising nicely. I have had three scans and we have seen progression each time. I have another scan scheduled for next Friday and I hope we see I fetus and heart beat then.

Hi awesome,
Congratulation, soo happy that everything is going well for u.
I am praying you will hear ur baby heartbeat and that everything is fine.
Keep me updated, as for me no major symptoms yet, today I am 6 weeks and 2 days all I have is bit of dizziness, little sore boobs and drinking tons of water, I won't see a doctor till I am 9 weeks, if I get there.
Praying for both of us and keep me posted!
Hugs.