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Beanie is also being a naughty beanie

Lol, Laura, that made me laugh! I am glad that your midwife is finally showing some concern and willingness to go a few extra steps for the safety of you both! :thumbup: And glad you will be off work soon.

Re the economist- yes, but I haven't heard back from my attorney yet. The gentleman I spoke with also mentioned if his rates were unacceptable he did have a referral to another, so :shrug: hope to hear from my atorney soon :)
 
Patrice- that's awesome that you and dh are so enthused about the Army! :thumbup: Did the recruiters say anything about being shipped overseas at all? :nope: Hopefully not...I just have one problem, and I'll bet this has crossed the minds of all your bnb buddies.....I cannot help but wonder how in the world you and your dh will manage without dtd for the length of Basic Training :haha: :rofl: Ok, seriously though, I think you'll do awesome, and the Army has a ton to offer! :thumbup:
 
Coy-re the overseas: they did mention that it could be a possibility but they were talking about Germany. For afghanistan etc they arent trying to add more soldiers in because they are removing all soldiers by 2014. But they said its a small chance we could be deployed there. The thing I like about these recruiters is they dont tell you what you want to hear so you can join because alot of people join daily. They told you what you need to know and leave it to you to decide for yourself there is no pressure. Now about dtd. I was a little worried about that but i know that we can manage :haha: They said once we are stationed...we can go baby crazy :rofl: I think if i dont get pregnant now...after we train, im getting pregnant immediately from the welcome home dtd :rofl:
 
Ahhh, so annoying that I have to log back in here everytime.

Patrice, that IS huge news. Wow! I think the benefits sound great, and as long as you are fully dedicated, know what to expect and are comfortable with it, then it sounds like a great situation for your family. Question- if you get pregnant before basic training, will you ever do the basic training or would your dh just enlist? I'm just wondering because you obviously can't do the training when you're pregnant (right?) and then after you have the baby you can't leave for 10 weeks. Unless you have a caretaker?

Do you have any idea where you'd be stationed? Hopefully you can stay somewhat close, so you are near your family. I'd be afraid of being deployed too, even if it's a small chance... especially with children I wouldn't want anything to happen to me, and I also wouldn't want to be away from them for so long! With both of you enlisting, would they make sure that at least one of you can stay home with the kids? They wouldn't send you both away, would they?

Anyway, I'm sure you've talked and thought all this through many times over so you know all the scenarios!

Laura- Sorry to hear beanie is still breech... good news though is that at 33 weeks there is still plenty of time for him to turn. Usually at 33 weeks, baby is still flipping a lot as there is still enough room, but hopefully his final flip with be head down. I actually sometimes feel hiccups up high, so I wonder if mine is still flipping around a lot, because I also feel hiccups low too. But at every one of my appts they tell me he's head down. If Beanie doesn't turn, there are things to look into to get him to turn. I know some Chiropractors practice the Webster technique and it's very effective (and less risky than the ECV). There was also a study in which 100 women past 35 weeks were told to visualize their babies turning around and in 81 of them they did, only after several total hours of practice. With no other techniques. So that's pretty amazing. I also think that by 37 weeks most babies will turn spontaneously. Just don't fear that he will stay this way and don't think negatively, because that will tense up your uterus leaving it less flexible and there will be less room for baby to turn. (And this also applies to having a easier and shorter labor... if you're fearing things and tensing your body, it goes straight to the uterus)...

Re: PE, isn't it only a concern when your BP is high? Because it is the BP that affects the health of you and the baby. If it is swelling only (which as of now it is, right?) then is that really much of a concern? And when your MW says that something might happen, what does that mean... early labor?
 
She's nervous it will turn into PE. Mostly because my swelling is early & getting worse & because my Mum had it. My blood pressure is now 143/80, the top numbers now classed as high but it's the bottom that is the main concern apparently and 80 is normal & is was pretty common for me pre pregnancy. The thing with blood pressure & PE it can come on very suddenly, that's what happened to some1 in my yoga class. I'm glad she's cautious though & hope it comes to nothing.

She's also got concerns about him not turning in the next couple of weeks because if my strong tummy muscles, she thinks they'll make it a lot more difficult for him soon. She can't actually tell he's breach by feel, just by were the heartbeat is!! I'm going to do my yoga positions every day, they worked for 1 person on my yoga class. Fingers crossed he'll move soon!!

Did you manage to get a good nights sleep in the end? Well as good as a pregnant lady can get!!
 
Laura- try not to worry about breach too much- Steph is right they do tend to flip around as much as they can! Once it gets cramped up in there they want to move even more :)

AFM- I was awake until 3:30 a.m. :growlmad: Once I finished my online work the girls both started to get restless, talking in their sleep, sleeping upside down :roll:, getting lost under their blankets, etc...So I stayed up cleaned the kitchen, did the dishes, ate some cheerio's (an early breakfast? :haha:) took the trash out...finally did get my cool shower in though and went to bed. I had these wierd heart palpitations though that went on for quite a while and made me feel breathless- I am wondering if it's anything I should talk to my doc about? :shrug:
 
Heart palpations do happen, I went through a phase if them but never for very long & my SIL has recently suffered with. You're a few weeks earlier though. It may just be because you've been so busy & the stress of trying to find an economist. When's your next Drs app scheduled? Maybe worth getting in sooner for a check up. Make sure blood pressure etc is ok.

Well the positions may well work, got the Doppler out again & he appears to have moved down. He really must be a fidget. I'm also doing the positive thinking Stepth & we've both been talking to him telling him to go down & stroking the bump downwards!!! Now to get him to stop fidgeting & stat there!!
 
Laura- Wow that was fast! Do all you can to get him to stay down there! :haha:

Coy- Ahh heart palpitations... I've lived with them, and get them even more frequently during pregnancy. Sometimes it's the typical pounding of the heart, sometimes it's more of a "fluttering" which with me happens more often and is scarier. I first started noticing them around 12 years old (which mean it could very well be hormonal), where it would feel like a skipped beat and I went to get checked out and they couldn't find anything wrong. Continued to get them and now they are just an everyday normal occurence for me. The times when I still get scared (and this happened in my first pregnancy too) is when the fluttering continues on and doesn't stop. I had this happen a few weeks ago but tried not to worry because the same thing happened at the same time in my first pregnancy-- and I went to a cardiologist, they did an ECG and all that stuff and everything looked fine. I really think it might be a combination of several things: hormones, more blood pumping so your heart needs to keep up, the pressure of your uterus pushing up on your diaphragm, and sometimes heartburn and indigestion or a full meal can irritate the vagus nerve which controls your heart rhythm. Sometimes I notice them more after eating a big meal.
 
Laura- I wondered about the stress issue as well...:shrug: I have my share of it :growlmad: lol but hey- I always try to view as things could be worse :) :thumbup: Anyway...My next Dr.'s appointment isn't until the 31rst of this month, another 16 days away :( It seems like forever but not too bad :) We get to do our gender scan that day :happydance: I am soooo excited! :thumbup: Can't wait :)
 
Ah, relief- I finally hear back from my attorney (after pestering them with emails and phone calls :growlmad: all day long) and he said we would go ahead with this exp. econ. :happydance: So now I am busting my buns trying to make sure I have all of the applicable info for him as I do not trust my attorney's paralegal to do her job...At the mediation my attorney asked her for some paper work and she sat in her chair examining her nails, then, popping her gum in to her mouth, she slowly reaches over and pushes this 6-inch thick stack of papers at me and says dryly "You can probably find it faster than I can..." :saywhat: I did too :smug: But I had to wrack my brains to configure dates in proportion to page thickness and finally made a random guess at an inch and a half in...lol...:wacko:
 
Coy, it's a good thing you're in law school, I'm sure this helps greatly with your case! It's easy for someone who is ignorant about law and doesn't get the lingo (that would be me) to get taken advantage of through the process! And the patience you gotta have... I wouldn't be able to do it!
 
I do miss school though. I have all of my study materials for the Holistic Nutrition program I was telling you about, but haven't even opened my books since I've been pregnant. How do you find time to study, when you are pregnant and have to take care of your family at the same time? For me I always think, well, it's easy for me to break open the books instead of watching TV or something like that... but I always choose to watch TV when I get a break to relax. I just end up watching brainless shows and then I zombie out for hours.....
 
I do miss school though. I have all of my study materials for the Holistic Nutrition program I was telling you about, but haven't even opened my books since I've been pregnant. How do you find time to study, when you are pregnant and have to take care of your family at the same time? For me I always think, well, it's easy for me to break open the books instead of watching TV or something like that... but I always choose to watch TV when I get a break to relax. I just end up watching brainless shows and then I zombie out for hours.....

Lol, I know, huh?! I would love to zombie out...as it is the family sits down to watch a movie and I end up in the office studying and writing my assignment :( lol... I do have my favorite shows that I watch though...Person of Interest, NCIS, NCIS LA (:wacko: I know) ... The way I look at it I waited so long to enter college I feel like I have to drive myself forward--one good thing I found out that the years of security work that I performed can be used as credits to advance me through a portion of my degree :happydance: I do get tired though, it is tougher when you are pg because your body always feels like it is constantly perofrming even when you are resting. I did just try to lay down on the couch and- yep, you guessed it "mama!! mama!!" lol...Up I come...I am helping one with her schooling and the other with her letters. No school for me tonight though! :happydance: Just dinner and a good 'ol cop show....
 
Question- (Laura- maybe you might know): I just installed the BabyGaga updates for FB because I'm tired of people asking me when I'm due! Problem is that it is showing up on my profile but not in the newsfeed (at least it's not visible to me). Maybe I installed the app wrong or something??
 
I'm having a really hard time sleeping. I may have overdone it yesterday-- cleaning, housework, etc... because last night I started feeling nauseous, dizzy and short of breath. And I woke up many times because I couldn't breathe or had to go to the bathroom. I guess baby is pushing on both my bladder AND my lungs! I thought it would be one or the other. And everytime I turn in bed I feel soooo heavy, it's like I can't get my belly to move to the other side, it takes so much work lifting my body. Ugh.... I'm so ready to have this baby!!!!!!!
 
Where is everyone? Of course, when I'm chatty no one is online :haha:
 
Where is everyone? Of course, when I'm chatty no one is online :haha:

Lol, I am here--I have been at work at the computer all morning just not a minute to myself :growlmad:...Ahhh...attorneys, ex. economists, medications, doctors, getting girls fed and ready, running errands...now I am hungry but have one more errand to run for my attorney before I can eat! lol, all in a days work, right?
 
You are ready to have this baby! :haha: I remember those days...you fantasize about what it's like to sleep on your tummy again, I used to have daydreams about doing crunches! :haha:
 
Steph- your due date popped right up on FB when I logged in so you must have done it right! :thumbup: Congrats btw- 35 weeks! Anytimg now is a good time :) lol
 

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