Looking for some reassurance!

[CakeBaby]

Hi ladies

Been having positives for 10 days now. I believe I’m 18/19dpo although not 100% as I had a CP last months which threw my dates. My lines are not getting any darker on wondfo and I just got 1-2 weeks on a CB digi when I was expecting 2-3z

I do have some FRER’s coming tomorrow as this is where I got my ‘best’ line last week. I’ve been super crampy and nauseous the last few days but no bleeding and nothing else concerning. Is there any hope or is this one not meant to be either?

First pic is todays wondfo.
Second pic Saturday’s wondfo.
Third pic is last Tuesday’s dry wondfo.

 

[CakeBaby]

First pic Wednesday’s FRER
Second pic Thursdays FRER

obviously both good lines and did progress but I ran out. Will take another Tomorrow and hopefully get some clarity.

 

[3boys]

I have always found the the strip tests are great for showing bfps but terrible for progression. It takes forever for them to get really dark. As for your digital how diluted was your urine?

 

[3boys]

Ps your frer look awesome.

 

[CakeBaby]

I have always found the the strip tests are great for showing bfps but terrible for progression. It takes forever for them to get really dark. As for your digital how diluted was your urine?

Thanks for your reply!
I’ve become obsessive and it’s driving me nuts!!! I just feel like they’re possibly even lightening but they do vary greatly through the day.
I think it was about a 3 hour hold done at 3.30 in the afternoon. Maybe not the best time. I just know with DD I was having 2-3 weeks by this point and by 28dpo my levels were over 9500. I just know I’m not there this time so I’m extra worried and obviously gone a little bit crazy lol!

 

[3boys]

I think we all go a bit crazy in early pregnancy I know it’s easy to say but try not to worry. There are so many variables.

 

[MrsKatie]

Your progression is amazing!! Congratulations!

 

[Jules8]

I think the progression looks good! Don’t do betas? That might help give better insight as lines vary so much in the beginning.

 

[CakeBaby]

Thanks ladies. No beta’s here unfortunately as I’m in the UK so would only be able to have them done if there’s an issue like bleeding or severe pin and GP referred me to EPAU.
Wondfo lines are as good as they’ve ever been today but no darker, CB still says 1-2 so I’m not holding out much hope.
Really dull, heavy feeling, not quite like period cramps. And I’m just grumpy today lol!

 

[3boys]

How far do you think you are?

 

[3boys]

dull cramping feeling and being grumpy are not bad signs.

 

[CakeBaby]

I think I’m 19-21dpo, had my first vvvfl 11 days ago so I can’t be much off dates wise.
Done another FRER this evening and wish I hadn’t. Line is the same if not slightly lighter than the one from last week (fresher pic, this one was after 10 mins the last one was a dry pic). Basically I’m not confident so am probably just waiting to bleed now.

 

[3boys]

Hang on in there. That’s still a great line.

 

[josephine3]

That's a great looking frer! Think you are stressing for no reason x

 

[mummyyshearer]

I might be wrong…. But does hcg levels not level out sometime around 8-10wks? So pregnancy tests stop gettin darker etc…. Maybe thats the case here?

 

[CakeBaby]

Thanks ladies I know I sound completely bonkers but I just can’t shake the feeling that something is off.
Anywho! I’ve had a decent wondfo this morning and I am officially out of tests.. so I’m stopping now haha. I’m just going with the flow now before I go to an even crazier place so I’ll see what happens over the next week or so and update then.
Thanks again ladies for listening to my crazy ramblings. Good luck all and I’ll pop back when I have an update xx

 

[CakeBaby]

Just an update as I hate when I’m trawling the internet with questions and there’s not one. The inevitable bleeding started early hours Friday morning at 5+2. Still quite intense but hopefully will ease off soon. Feeling ok, obviously not nice that it was the second month in a row but it can’t be helped. I also enjoyed a couple of ciders at family party at the weekend so that was a very very small consolation prize lol.
Love and baby dust to everyone

 

[NightFlower]

I'm sorry for your loss

 

[tdog]

So sorry hunni fingers crossed it eases soon xx

 

[Jules8]

I’m so sorry!