Thanks All...sounds like we can all be a support for each other...we are pretty much the last of our friends to not have kids and all the talk with our friends is kids...so, we feel like we are living such a different life and really, just want to be parents.
I wish the best for all of us and it means a lot to have a forum to come to where people are feeling some of the same feelings...it can feel so isolating sometimes when you are on such an emotional roller coaster!
I know what you mean - i feel stuck where friendship groups are concerned at the moment. I have friends who are childless by choice, and they have deliberately developed friendships with other childless folk as they enjoy the same things (eating out, late night partying, exotic or very active holidays etc). Now we
could do those things, but the reality is, it is not "us". We like to potter around the house and walk in the local parks. We don't do late nights or much alcohol, and really value and love our family, more so than our friendships.
Hanging out with friends with kids works well - we're sooooooo ready for children ourselves!
At this rate, I am going to become a kidnap risk ....