Lost enthusiasm?

[Serene123]

I feel bad for feeling like this, but I've totally lost enthusiasm in TTC. I don't obsess anymore, I can't get into my cycle, I don't want to symptom spot. I'm actually dreading the first 12 weeks of my next pregnancy so much, not that I seem to be able to make it ANYWHERE near that point......

Serious lack of PMA.

 

[maratobe]

 

[pinkgem100]

Hi, sorry that you are feeling like this. I lost my little boy in Dec 2008 and we tried and tried but nothing. over xmas with it being such a busy time we didnt really talk about ttc and i am now 6 weeks pregnant.

I felt like you did, felt like giving up and actually found that by having a month not worrying about it helped, even if i hadnt found out i was pregnant i felt better in myself having a month of not planning and just enjoying sex.

Hope you fell better soon.

 

[Jem88]

This prob won't make it any easier but if you think of it as you already have a healthy little girl, maybe it'll take time but you know its happend before, it can happen again?

 

[Serene123]

I was trying to think like that, but I just feel like if you have two miscarriages in the space of 2 months then something has to be wrong

 

[natp18]

I wish I could feel like that, I am the opposite and its making me sick with stress hun. Hopefully it will happen for you soon hun xxx

 

[Serene123]

Thank you, you too xx

 

[Megg33k]

I don't know if you know her, but one of the girls in my signature who is currently pregnant... She had 3 mc's, 3 months in a row (all fairly early)... Then she had a month that she didn't fall pregnant and is now in 2nd tri! So, it can definitely happen, honey! It's just hard to remember!

 

[Beadette]

The lost enthusiasm for TTC might not be a bad thing! Sometimes I think us ladies can get a bit preoccupied with charting, opk's, temping and actually forget that sex used to be fun!!

Hope that came across right - meaning that the less you think about and stress about trying to get pregnant, perhaps the more chance you do?? I dunno but its always a logic I try to stick to! Happy mind=happy body=more chance of catching the eggy!

Anyway get bonking and enjoy it! And here's to a huge sticky BFP for you very soon flower x x x x x

 

[Serene123]

Thank you x

I know it could happen but right now I just don't believe it will

 

[lauraperrysan]

i've had 5 m/c's in 2yrs.... All my losses we're either chemicals or by the 6th week....I am now 8 weeks and everything feels so different this time. Im by no means out the woods yet but 2 m/c's can still be due to bad luck, so can 3,4 or 5......
It's a hard and lonely time / journey but ur body, like mine, has carried a baby to term before and IT WILL do it again
i know how ur feeling but onwards and upwards, there is a reason us women had children, because we are strong! PMA LADIES xxxxxxx

 

[Dimbo]

The lost enthusiasm for TTC might not be a bad thing! Sometimes I think us ladies can get a bit preoccupied with charting, opk's, temping and actually forget that sex used to be fun!!

Hope that came across right - meaning that the less you think about and stress about trying to get pregnant, perhaps the more chance you do?? I dunno but its always a logic I try to stick to! Happy mind=happy body=more chance of catching the eggy!

Anyway get bonking and enjoy it! And here's to a huge sticky BFP for you very soon flower x x x x x

What she said ^^

I do know what you mean though Toria. I know it could happen. I know it could happen this month and could be sticky. But I just can't see it happening right now. Hopefully forgetting about it will make it happen. You gotta love that logic

 

[Megg33k]

The best part about not believing it will is that you'll get to be even more pleasantly surprised when it DOES! It will, honey! I know it will!