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So sorry for your loss.
I'm new too I lost my baby girl at 17 weeks, 8 months ago.
I promise it gets easier, but i don't think it'll ever go away. I think about her every day, she was perfect, my angel.
We arn't ready to try yet, well he isn't, plus my mother has warned me off pregnancy until after my sisters wedding this Summer. Which is what every grieving parent wants to hear right?
Major issue is my 17 yr old, jobless, school drop-out sister in law (who lives with us most if the time!) has announced she is pregnant. She is a very young 17 and can barely look after herself.
I just feel numb, I'm so jelous I hate feeling like this. I should have been next! Is it normal? Am I selfish for feeling so angry with her?
She probably feels terrified at the moment and could probably do with someone to talk to but I can't face it - I can't handle the baby talk and questions and when the scan pictures start rolling in I do NOT want to be here! Sorry I just had to admit how I feel to someone x x x
I am so sorry for your loss. This part of the forum is amazing and will help you SO very much. These ladies have helped me more than anyone in my life has. When you have a loss the last thing you want to see or hear is about another baby, that is totally normal. This sadness just seems to come and go.
I lost my Ava at 20 weeks, I gave birth in my home and we buried her on 3/11/2011. So the dreaded year is coming up and I am getting more upset by the day.
I hope things get easier for us both and I hope your family (mine too) will be more understanding of this loss, it never goes away. It is just a new normal .
If you ever need to talk I am here and so is everyone else.
XOXO Andrea