M/C at 13 weeks

[Misselle44]

Hi everyone-

I was really, really hoping not to have to post here. I had my 13 week scan and the baby has died, sometime within the past 2 days or so. It was so heartbreaking to see the baby's little image, so perfectly formed and know I will never hold him or her.

This is my second m/c, but I also have 2 perfect and gorgeous little girls (the last m/c was between them).

I will have to have a D & C because I can't stand the thought of passing my little angel on my own.

I just hope that we might try again. We won't know for sure until they can examine the remains, but I have a heart condition that required some class c medication (meaning that it is not proven to be dangerous but does have some potential side effects for the baby). I am not able to go off it, for obvious reasons.

I just feel so horrible and hopeless.

Thanks for reading.

 

[dizzy65]

so sorry for ur loss

 

[Waiting2bMommy]

So very sorry for your loss. I hope everything goes well at the doctor and you will be able to try again

 

[Sash13]

Sorry to hear the sad news. It must be so difficult to be torn between taking care of yourself and wanting another child.

 

[krockwell]

so sorry about your loss. Take care of yourself, and best of luck at the dr's.

Stay strong!

 

[NickyT75]

Aw hunni im so sorry for your loss xx

 

[eclipse]

I'm so sorry for your loss. How devastating. I only know too well that horrible image *cringe* I hope that the news about your medication is positive for you and your future. *hugs*

 

[honey08]

awww no hun just so so sry for u,i truley am, ive always thought after seeing HB the chances of mc are so so slim,and ive just read ur post and sadley another ladies post aswell i myself had a d&c in march this yr,it was my first pregnancy and got told i might b unable to past everything safley.....i truley wish u and ur family all the best hun

 

[celine]

Im so sorry for your loss xxx

 

[Wishfull]

So sorry for your loss. This is a very difficult time for you darlin an you will have alsorts going through your mind. But try not to worry darlin.
Life does seem so hopeless and cruel when this happens.
Thinking of you sweetie
Take care
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mummymadness]

so very sorry for your loss . xxxxx .

 

[Rumpskin]

Life is so cruel. I am so very sorry sweety xxx

 

[Drazic<3]

Im so very sorry for your loss.
I know things feel awful now, but with time you will heal.
I just wish i could take the hurt away.

 

[Chris77]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

 

[cleckner04]

I am sorry for your loss hun.

 

[morayo]

sorry hun.

 

[buffycat]

i am so sorry for your loss.......take care

 

[Misselle44]

Thank you so much for all of your support. It really, really means the world to me.

I got the d&C today. It was incredibly difficult (the last m/c I passed on my own). But, not the nightmare I was afraid of. Everyone was very nice and supportive.

The doctor assured me that the medicine I am on does NOT cause miscarriage and that my heart condition was very unlikely to have been a factor. I am very happy to hear that, as you can imagine. She also said that my OH and I can start trying again as soon as 2 weeks, so it is back to the ovulation tests for us!

I am really upset and it is going to be so hard, I know that from experience. But at least I have a good chance for trying again. I have to hang on to that hope.