m/c upset

[sophiecouldwe]

i dont no what to do with myself at the mo! i had a m/c march this year and i cant get over it! i feel so silly now and just dont no what to do.

i found myself in an awful situation this march wen the day b4 i was due to go skiing for a week wiv my dad n sister i began to bleed. i had no idea what this meant and no clue wot was about to happen to me. i was away from my OH at this sad time and my family had no idea what was goin on so i was completly on my own.

only last nite both me and my OH cried for about an hour over our loss and we both are struggling so much even after all these months. its really affected us.

we have just decided that we are ready to TTC which i am excited about but also very scared tht the same thing will happen again.

have any of u got any advice on what i should do 2 stop this awful feeling? has anyone been in simular situations? im just feeling a bit lost at the mo. i think its because of the excitment of deciding on TTC, its brought it all back again.

xxxxx

 

[m_t_rose]

I also m/c in march of this year the 6th to be exact. My DH and I cried for about a night and then I cry every once in a while. I think it just takes time for the pain to go away. I know that when I get my BFP I will be excited but the happy news is going to be tainted a little bit by the fear that it will happen again. If you dont mind me asking how far along were you when you m/c?

 

[leeanne]

I miscarried with my first pregnancy. It is tough to go to the next step of TTC and then once pregnant, it is tough to not be scared that it will happen again.

Miscarriages are definitely heartbreaking and something you won't get over but in time it will get easier. Right now, do cry and grieve and try to find some closure for your loss.

 

[Happy]

I m/c in May and I am now pregnant again. Not a day goes by where I dont worry that this one will end up the same way but you have to take it day as it comes. It will get easier, and I'm so sorry you had to go through that alone.

Good luck TTC.