Making things complicated

[BlackBerry25]

I think its hard for guys, especially young ones, to grasp the concept of a baby while you are pregnant. Sometimes they need to physically see it to understand that they created this actual human being. My OH is 100% supportive but I still don't think he will fully get it until he holds her.

I hope everything works out for you guys, as a family. Maybe he has smartened up!

 

[Jayden'sMummy]

Things went .. erm Ok/ish. [VERY EMOTIONAL]

Adam an his mum + dad turned up [more presents again lol, my boys so spoilt ha] things were going ok was just really awkward, kinda like of those films were the lad looks at the girl an when he realizes shes looking too he quickly turns away, thats all we done for the 2 hours he was there! i couldn't take my eyes of him especially when he was holding J. Jayden done a really biggg poop while he was there an i said to J 'aww daddys going to change your bum now' an Adam just laughed at me an said he cant he he doesn't know how too! looks like i will have to teach him a thing or two haha.

After they left i had a cry because thing got too much for me an i got real emotional an just hugged Jayden an then he cried an i cried an oh god! we looked like a right pair haha x

 

[maybebaby]

Awwww, I can understand how you feel. My best friend's husband left her while she was pg with my godson, and turned up for the birth trying to get a relationship with his son, and her actually. She did end up taking him back, but he ended up just being a schmuck and cheating on her. They are divorcing now. Not to say this is going to happen to you!!! But I can definitely see how you are drawn towards a family...

 

[Moulder86]

Thing is I know there is no future for me and bubs dad but I still have feelings for him and I'm sure seeing him with bubs is going to be really hard too......then seeing him, bubs and Harvey (his 1st son) the three of them together is going to break my heart.

I think you are very brave and I also think you seem to be coping with it very well. I hope things get easier but like others have said just try and keep it seperate.

And Rach your lil man is so lovely! Well done!

xx