Hi girls! Busy day for me today...had my 20 week scan at lunch and been prepping for our reveal tomorrow the rest of the day.
The appointment went well, though we got a little bit of sad news. I'll start with happy then cover the bad news and then end with happy news though.
The sonographer was great and took a lot of time looking at the baby from every angle. All the parts were there and in their correct places and sizes for 20 weeks.
She was also able to get a good look at the nether parts (we turned away for this part) and we have the gender details in an envelope ready for our reveal. I handed the envelope to my friend earlier who is helping us out with the reveal tomorrow.
As I mentioned, we also got a bit of sad news - she found an echogenic intracardiac focus on the baby's heart. Basically, it's a little calcium deposit which has no impact on health or heart function but has been noted as a genetic marker for trisonomy. When we did the screening earlier in the pregnancy, there was a 1 in 6000 chance of chromosomal issues (my age being the main contributor to it being at that), but now it's been doubled (so 1/3000). They offered us the option of the amnio test but we declined. We would not abort over this so there's no point. I'm sad as of course I want the healthiest baby possible but I'm trying to rationalize with myself as this is still only a .03% chance of any abnormalities. So I'll be praying a bit more over the next few months.
Then, to end on a good note as promised, we opted to have the extra vaginal ultrasound to check the cervix and look for placenta previa. No placenta previa for me! And the cervix looked good too so that definitely answers my previous worries of incompetent cervix issues arising and I'm glad we had that option to check it out.
SO all in all, it was a very good appointment - baby is growing well, (s)he cooperated on the gender check, my cervix looks good and there's no placenta previa. Attached are two images from the scan. I'll post info about the gender reveal tomorrow night!