good afternoon everyone,
sorry its been awhile since been on.
our son was born tuesday 15th March @ 1.38am weighing 7lb 6oz.
as my partner kim was 14 days over on sunday she went in to be induced, by 8am the following morning both pesseries hadnt worked and her waters were broke at 1cm dilated.
after a few hours the pain was unbearable and going faint with pain, then had diamorphine and then passed out, had crash team in, very scary. he continued to pass out with the pain and come round.
after several hours she was advised to have an epidural which she didnt want.
they had to resite as the 1st didnt work.
after this she started coming back to normal.
then babies heartrate kept dropping to 70 during contractions.
then an hour later the base line went from 155 to 175 with no variation. they examined her and found the waters were stained with meconium, they tested babies head @ 1:25am and then ran back in room with results, i got rushed to get scrubs on and by 1:38am Lewis was born with a crash c section.
kim then heameraghed i think and was very poorly.
i never imagined any of this would of happened i was so naive and clueless.
but both are very well after the most traumatic labour.
this im sure is very rare and probably coincides with kims health conditions.
our only problem now is her mother who is staying with us.
the reason she was staying was to support us e.i. cooking cleaning and helping when we needed.
i dont know if its me being tired and irratible but she cant cook, i have done most of it, im meant to be looking after my girlfriend and our son. she wont leave us alone. ive done all the housework and look after my partner and son, she just interferes with baby all time, telling kim what to do. telling her how to breastfeed, she never did it right 30 years ago.
so sorry for rant neeeded get it off my chest.
x