masterbation help??

[mrsslithers]

saw midwife this morning and she said to me baby is well down and in a good position for labour now..she said his 2/5ths and wont get any lower until labour/birth now.. so good news that his ready i suppose..
she said he cud come at anytime now, its all up to him..

bit too much info now but dont no if any1 else has experienced this but ive been gettin very ''frustrated'' atm and with myself being single sex is outta the question so i used my vibrator today and it made my lil man wriggles loads but then he sorta made the vibrator move haha was weird, was like he was pushing it away..so proves his heads well down rite

also just wondering i know its the toxins in semen that helps to ripen the cervix but will masturbation actually help atall??

 

[AngelBunny]

i believe orgasms can help you go into labor only if the body is ready they cause the womb to contract & also makes you release oxytocin which helps induce labor. i'm gonna be trying this myself, lots! hehe xx

 

[poasa]

I've read somewhere that the orgasm can help start contractions x

 

[mrsslithers]

well nothing as of yet haha .. but his head must b well down to move the vibrator haha

 

[rachy12342]

Haha bet that was very strange! Imagine what that would feel like to a guy! Too wierd! I'm sure the contracting uterus could help begin labor, or I am just going to believe this for my fun x

 

[Nyn]

orgasms are good for getting things kick started! x

 

[jaytee146]

wow... I'm single as well and thought about going to the adult store to look around but I felt kinda bad being pregnant alone and walking up and down the adult store looking like a kid pointing and looking at everything... LOL! I'd better get one of my friends to go with me.

 

[crazylilth1ng]

I hope it works for you and little one comes soon!!!!

On another note... You guys are so lucky to be able to masturbate and not be put off by baby moving around. It just kills everything for me, I felt up for it earlier today as OH was out working and to be quite honest (and I know this sounds selfish) but getting him off too is just too much like hard work as he always wants me to "take my time on him" and I am too tired to take more than about 3 minutes on myself let alone someone else... so anyway, I thought ahhhh me time... then she moved around loads in there and the urge completely dried up

 

[ajraye]

I found this online so thought I would share it with you....
In the past, it was thought that female orgasms could trigger preterm labor. This is because orgasms actually cause your uterus to contract. During orgasm, the hormone oxytocin is released. This hormone is also responsible for triggering labor contractions. This led many health care providers to advise against orgasms during pregnancy. Thankfully, we now know that the uterine contractions caused by orgasm are actually entirely normal. They will not lead to preterm labor in women who are experiencing healthy pregnancies, and they cannot cause your cervix to dilate or efface.

 

[FeistyMom]

I definitely get mild contractions every time I orgasm - regardless of the method employed! But it has never jump started labor for me and this is baby #3. Although partially by the last week of my previous 2 pregnancies, I was WAY too uncomfortable to even consider it.

But along the lines of baby managing to 'move' things - my hubby informed me that things were seeming 'crowded', so he was sure the baby had dropped and was worried about 'poking him in the head'. So it looks like my sex life has dried up for now!

 

[punkmama24]

There is an actual chemical in sperm that will help ripen the cervix. However as others have noted we do release oxytocin during orgasm so therefore it can't hurt. I think especially if the body is getting ready anyways. Also 20 to 30 minutes of nipple stimulation is another theory to help progress the body into labor. This also releases oxytocin.

 

[babyhopes2010]

we call our baby the sex blocker cos everytime we want sex time baby will start moving around and it totally puts me off,so im v fustrated too x

 

[sammi.bump]

i seem to always be in the mood but sometimes find that sex gives me a stitch lol, i feel so unfit and tired, wont stop me tho, OH works away monday-friday so its all go at the weekend

 

[ProudMum]

I have a bag full of toys lol... I dont have any issues using them either or admitting that I do.
I dont think it'll induce labour though as its been giving me tightenings ever since I have been using them whilst pregnant...
Unless your close to labour I dont think you have much chance of starting anything off using your vibrator but have fun trying lol. xx