Went to a Consultant clinic appointment this morning and came out with my C-Section Date!!! 23rd of april at 11am!!! eeeeeeeekkkkkkkk
That's exciting babee!
I'm a bit frustrated though as I'll be 24 weeks on Thursday (ie 2 days later than you) and mine has been booked for 5pm on 29 April. My DD is actually 2 May and the first consultant I went to see said he'd do it 7 days before my DD ie 25 April. The second consultant (that I opted to go for) said he'd do it a week before too but last time I saw him he said it would be on the 29 as his slots are booked on Monday afternoons! I'm quite stressed about that now as it's only 3 days before my actual due date and it feels quite close. I asked if we could do it on 22 April instead but he said c11 days was too early to do it. Apparently if I go into labour early (unlikely for a first baby I know) they will do it as an emergency C. So annoying though as it's gone from being calm and planned to stressing me out a bit but pushing it later. I also think it's a crappy time to have surgery... Grrrr x
Maybes there is different circumstances on our Sections???
My 1st son i was 8days over, 3days in labour and i progressed to only 5cms, His heartrate crashed down and stayed down, so i was whipped down for C-section...
My 2nd Son, from the beginning was suppose to be a VBAC delivery there was no real issues for him not to be born Vaginally... Anyways i had follow up scans, i was small he was Big and it panicked the SHIT out of me! all the thoughts of my last labour came flooding back.. I was fine untill i got to 36 weeks... So i begged and pleaded with my midwife/consultant... so agreed to let me have the C-section.. Because it wasnt Medically neccessary i had him on the 3rd of August my DD was the 5th of August.. So i only had him 2 days before.
This time However is totally completely different!... Because ive had 2 c-sections, this baby and any other baby i may go on to have, will have to be via a section. This is for fear of the scar rupturing, and a whole boat load of anything else that can go wrong if i was to start to labour myself... So its Medically Neccessary that baby is out before that can happen. But not too early to cause Her any problems...
It could always be worst, you could go 8 days over like i did lol x
Also me personally i think fantastic timing!!! you'll be down for 5pm or just after, then in recovery for a couple of hours... so say 7pm you come back onto ward... Your Partner can stay for aslong as he likes, and that also means no other visitors are allowed onto the ward!... so then you's have got all night together to enjoying your baby, then visitors can come the next day... i wish mine was later on lol