maybe i should move over here

[Kates1122]

i had my mirena removed at the end of july, anyways, we were going to use condoms and did for a little while, but now we aren't. we are wtt until january, but now i think we are NOT trying but NOT preventing. i mean im not trying to have sex on my fertile days, but i'm not preventing everytime we do have sex. sometimes he pulls out, but sometimes not. so where do i belong??

 

[Pusscat]

Hi Kates1122 :wave: I'm not sure where I belong either! I think we should both be here though. I'm in a very similar position. Stopped BCP in August and was going to wait to try until January because I didn't want a summer baby. But... we've not exactly done anything to prevent since I stopped the pill. Like you, we're not trying on most fertile days, we're just seeing what happens. I heard you're most fertile just after stopping the pill. Old wives tale probably but I'll soon find out if it's true! I'm charting my temps and think, by chance, we DTD on a very fertile day. So maybe I should be in 2WW??! It'll be much easier once we are pregnant, then we'll know exactly where to be!

 

[kittylady]

Hey ladies, I had the same issue, I'm wtt till May supposedly but are ntnp really so I've finally changed my status

 

[Kates1122]

Well we dtd the day after ovulation. I am temping too but did not think I had ovulated but today they moved my ovulation day forward so now its one dpo that we dtd instead of 2 dpo. Still very slim chance but possible!