Mc at 13+4 on Monday I'm so lost!

[mas]

Hiya all to think that I had reached the mark when it's safe to tell everybody and I did! Only to have to announce a week later that I was mc our baby! Had a he'll of a time in hospital water broke at 2am and before I knew it I was in labour losing so much blood that I collapsed 2ice eventually after theta tried to remove all products as they called it and 2 failed attempts I was rushed to theatre had an op and ended up having blood transfusions. Came out of hospital this morning and feel so weak and at a loss.

People keep telling me mc is more common than u think. I went through it twice and on each occasion such comments never help cos it hurts just the same. Sorry for ranting I'm really confused I want answers as to why and what cud I have done to avoid this happening?????

Love to all


Mas

 

[babesx3]

So sorry for your loss

you've been thru a terrible ordeal, and left feeling empty with questions why!!

I can't answer your questions sorry, are they doing investigations for u?

Take care XXX

 

[iloveblue]

Hi
Just wanted to say sorry for your loss and thinking of you.
As you have been through this twice - will they do tests?
I don't think there is anything you could have done to stop it happening.

 

[mas]

Thanks for your replies, Can i ask for tests? how does it all work? they said they will investigate the product and let me know but probably they will not find out.

Mas

 

[Leanne020807]

I'm so sorry for your loss

 

[Jox]

So sorry for ur loss x

 

[mas]

thanks, wish I cud sleep at night seems i re-live the whole experience over and over again!

 

[babesx3]

thats only natural, its early days yet , be gentle on yourself....

If sleeping becomes an issue perhaps talk to your doctor xxxxx

 

[mas]

Thanks! Good plan we shall see! Im impatient!

 

[MrsBandEgglet]

I'm so sorry for your loss xx

 

[poppy666]

Mas im so sorry hun

 

[babesx3]

Thanks! Good plan we shall see! Im impatient!

hugs.... unfortunatley grief isn't one one those things u can hurry...
It took me 7 weeks to get thru the crying everyday bit.... now i just cry a couple of times a week.... i still think about him everyday but the pain isn't as bad as the first weeks....

Take care XXX