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emilyrose.x
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Hi everyone,
Myself and my partner have been trying for a baby for last 5 months, found out i was pregnant on 29th November 2010 and was the best feeling ever.. then and there i quit smoking, drinking and red up everything about what foods to avoid etc, i did everything by the book. i came out in a rash all over my body (believed to be from pregnancy) so was extra careful.
i experienced brown discharge on 15/12/2010 and went to hospital to be safe, they took blood, swabs and booked me in for a scan the next morning. When i had the scan the next day the baby was fine and heartbeat was very strong.
On the 17/12/2010 i began to have fresh blood and was advised to go straight back to hospital -once again everything seemed fine, cervix was closed and doctor didnt seem worried.
18/12/2010 Me and my partner had a nap from 5pm-8pm, when i woke up i was surrounded by blood. My partner took me straight to hospital where more blood began to pour out, i burst into tears as there was nothing i could do but lay there and hope everything would be okay. Huge clots began to come away and thats when i knew everthing wasnt ok. The doctor booked me in for a scan the next morning to confirm what we already knew.
19/12/2010 We arrived at the scan and my heart lit up when i saw the baby still inside, i couldnt belive it, neither could the midwife, she did a internal to get a closer look but sadly there was no heartbeat.
21/12/2010 At this moment in time i am laid in hospital waiting to have a D&C (fingers crossed will all go well). I am very scared as i am only young and just cant get my head around why this happened to us?
I did everything the right way and know we would have been great parents, reading on the internet that if the baby doesnt have the information he/she needs, then they short-fuse and stop growing because they cant have the best life possible. The thing that is upsetting me the most would be that the rash is now fading Just would like to know what people have found can help deal with the loss?
We are wanting to try for another, hoping the next one ends happily.
Em x
Myself and my partner have been trying for a baby for last 5 months, found out i was pregnant on 29th November 2010 and was the best feeling ever.. then and there i quit smoking, drinking and red up everything about what foods to avoid etc, i did everything by the book. i came out in a rash all over my body (believed to be from pregnancy) so was extra careful.
i experienced brown discharge on 15/12/2010 and went to hospital to be safe, they took blood, swabs and booked me in for a scan the next morning. When i had the scan the next day the baby was fine and heartbeat was very strong.
On the 17/12/2010 i began to have fresh blood and was advised to go straight back to hospital -once again everything seemed fine, cervix was closed and doctor didnt seem worried.
18/12/2010 Me and my partner had a nap from 5pm-8pm, when i woke up i was surrounded by blood. My partner took me straight to hospital where more blood began to pour out, i burst into tears as there was nothing i could do but lay there and hope everything would be okay. Huge clots began to come away and thats when i knew everthing wasnt ok. The doctor booked me in for a scan the next morning to confirm what we already knew.
19/12/2010 We arrived at the scan and my heart lit up when i saw the baby still inside, i couldnt belive it, neither could the midwife, she did a internal to get a closer look but sadly there was no heartbeat.
21/12/2010 At this moment in time i am laid in hospital waiting to have a D&C (fingers crossed will all go well). I am very scared as i am only young and just cant get my head around why this happened to us?
I did everything the right way and know we would have been great parents, reading on the internet that if the baby doesnt have the information he/she needs, then they short-fuse and stop growing because they cant have the best life possible. The thing that is upsetting me the most would be that the rash is now fading Just would like to know what people have found can help deal with the loss?
We are wanting to try for another, hoping the next one ends happily.
Em x