MC in March - BFP and think its happening again

Yvonne1

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Hi Girls

I just wanted some advice I guess!!

I mc in march when I lost the baby in 5-6 weeks - still missing them now!

But I finally got BFP again in July and am now 5/3days but have started to have spotting today and am so scared that it will happen again!

I know this is TMI but the spotting only started when I was constipated and had to push really hard for number 2s. It was defo spotting from front not back. and now I am spotting. I am so scared I am going to lose this one too. I am 40 and just not sure how many chances I am going to get either I just pray that it is not happening again.

I called the doctor to see if I could have an early scan and they said unless I am in extreme pain that I wont be able to have a scan for another two weeks. Then she had the audacity to say in olden days women just lost their babies early and didn't know !! You can imagine at this stage I was ready to blow!! well i had a small blow but really wanted to give her what for!! Anyway long and short of it is that she will refer me to get a scan at 7 weeks
so now i just have to wait!! just hope the bleeding doesn't get worse!!

I had booked a scan at 7 weeks anyway privately to get some reassurance so now will just move it out to about 9 weeks I think assuming al goes well in the next few weeks - just trying to stay positive

So has anyone else experienced the bleeding / spotting come on due to pushing too hard?? I know it sounds silly but just worried I am pushing my baby out

Yvonny xhttp://www.babyandbump.com/images/icons/icon9.gif
 
It could be implantation bleeding as its around the right time. I had spotting at 5 weeks and again at 7 weeks and everything is fine. I was convinced i was miscarrying and was told my the dr's receptionist to go home and keep my fingers crossed as there was nothing they could do. Not the most helpful attitude.

You could pay for a private scan but at 5 weeks they probably wouldnt see anything and that would just worry you all the more.

Sorry I cant be of more help but ill keep my fingers crossed for you xxx
 
Hi
thanks it helps

I still feel pregnant so "crossing fingers". Doctor has just called and they have booked me in for a scan next week on Tuesday so just have to relax until then!! and "cross fingers" . I have to do a pregnancy test before i go and call them if its negative which doesnt sound good news!! almost like they are expecting it to happen.

So there is no more i can do now but wait and see - this is so hard i just hope its good news!!

Thxs

Y
 
Hun if it gets any worse then go straight to A&E. If you go during the day might get an early scan. On the positive side there are lots of women that spot during their pregnancies and go to have healthy babies. Please try not to stress about it all (easier said... I know). Im currently TTC atm after MC in april and know that I'll be a bag of nerves when I do get that :bfp:.

Wishing you loads of sticky vibes

Kerry.

P.s keep in touch let us know how you get on!!
 
Hi Girls




I called the doctor to see if I could have an early scan and they said unless I am in extreme pain that I wont be able to have a scan for another two weeks. gif

That sounds like bull to me cuz when I was in pre-term labor I hardly felt anything until I got to the hospital. But I'm glad they booked you.

First of all, sorry about your loss. IA with others it may just be implantation bleeding.

I would also recommend going to the ER if you are still worried.
 
I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage in March Yvonne. Try to stay positive about this pregnancy, even though you have had spotting. It could be implantation bleeding or you could have a slight cervical erosion. A lot of women get this and their babies are fine.

I really hope things go well for you and your scan on Tuesday gives you some reassurance.

xxx
 
Sorry about your loss in march.
It could just be IB. Take it easy and try not to stress too much.
Good luck xx
 
Thinking of you. :hug: Lots of women do have spotting during their pregnancies. Stay strong hun. My fingers are crossed that this is all that's happening. Stick bean Stick.
 
Hello honey

I am so sorry about the m/c in March, when i m/cd in May i went into a&e as when i was in town this awful feeling washed over me, and i got extremely bad pains, and after a hour they died of, but i was so so worried i went to a&e, and exaggarated the pains as they had eased of, but i needed to know the score...

They werent to nice, till i broke down, and they sent me to the gyny ward, they where FANTASTIC, turned out they have a emergency service a bit like the a&e department over the weekend when epac is shut(i went in on the fri hun)....

So if i was you go to a&e or phone the hospital and ask to be put through to the early pregnancy assesment clinic, or over the weekend the gyny ward and explian you have extreme low side pain and bleeding and they will see you, make them listen, thats why these services are there for early pregnancy honey, plus tell them about the last mc...

A little white lie never hurt anyone, you will do more upset worrying honey, if they dont scan you they will do urgent HCG bloods and repeat them in 48hrs that way you will no either way honey....

My thoughts are with you honey, and its a GOOD sign you still feel pg, i didnt feel pregnant at all hun....

I feel your pain love Ash xxxx
 

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