Yvonne1
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Hi Girls
I just wanted some advice I guess!!
I mc in march when I lost the baby in 5-6 weeks - still missing them now!
But I finally got BFP again in July and am now 5/3days but have started to have spotting today and am so scared that it will happen again!
I know this is TMI but the spotting only started when I was constipated and had to push really hard for number 2s. It was defo spotting from front not back. and now I am spotting. I am so scared I am going to lose this one too. I am 40 and just not sure how many chances I am going to get either I just pray that it is not happening again.
I called the doctor to see if I could have an early scan and they said unless I am in extreme pain that I wont be able to have a scan for another two weeks. Then she had the audacity to say in olden days women just lost their babies early and didn't know !! You can imagine at this stage I was ready to blow!! well i had a small blow but really wanted to give her what for!! Anyway long and short of it is that she will refer me to get a scan at 7 weeks
so now i just have to wait!! just hope the bleeding doesn't get worse!!
I had booked a scan at 7 weeks anyway privately to get some reassurance so now will just move it out to about 9 weeks I think assuming al goes well in the next few weeks - just trying to stay positive
So has anyone else experienced the bleeding / spotting come on due to pushing too hard?? I know it sounds silly but just worried I am pushing my baby out
Yvonny xhttp://www.babyandbump.com/images/icons/icon9.gif
I just wanted some advice I guess!!
I mc in march when I lost the baby in 5-6 weeks - still missing them now!
But I finally got BFP again in July and am now 5/3days but have started to have spotting today and am so scared that it will happen again!
I know this is TMI but the spotting only started when I was constipated and had to push really hard for number 2s. It was defo spotting from front not back. and now I am spotting. I am so scared I am going to lose this one too. I am 40 and just not sure how many chances I am going to get either I just pray that it is not happening again.
I called the doctor to see if I could have an early scan and they said unless I am in extreme pain that I wont be able to have a scan for another two weeks. Then she had the audacity to say in olden days women just lost their babies early and didn't know !! You can imagine at this stage I was ready to blow!! well i had a small blow but really wanted to give her what for!! Anyway long and short of it is that she will refer me to get a scan at 7 weeks
so now i just have to wait!! just hope the bleeding doesn't get worse!!
I had booked a scan at 7 weeks anyway privately to get some reassurance so now will just move it out to about 9 weeks I think assuming al goes well in the next few weeks - just trying to stay positive
So has anyone else experienced the bleeding / spotting come on due to pushing too hard?? I know it sounds silly but just worried I am pushing my baby out
Yvonny xhttp://www.babyandbump.com/images/icons/icon9.gif