Leo_Mumma
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I don't even know where to begin with this woman. She's so infuriating! We've just been going over my birth plan and she pretty much just ignored anything I said. Her words to my not wanting an epidural where "your being stupid if you think your not going to want it" I understand its not to everyone's taste but does she need to be so rude! She hasn't even given me chance yet. I might cope better than I even thought.
I also said I was really keen for a water birth and she said its not going to happen as she "has a feeling my weight will creep up, making me not flexible enough.. and my veins are crap" My bmi was 32.3, I've put on about 20lbs and I'm still walking my dogs through the forests for at least an hour a day plus everything I was doing before. I'm fit and active and my bp is fine. I had a trace of protein in my urine today but that's it.
Arghhh woman is driving me crazy!
I mentioned that i'd like my placenta capsulated and she just raised her eyebrows at my partner and wouldn't even write it in my notes!
Added all the other sly remarks she puts in, I just feel like she's ruining something that should be so beautiful. Its my baby, my birth and although I know I cant "plan" anything really, I just wanted it to be special to me. My partner is so sucked in by everything she says and takes it as fact which is pissing me off even more.
I also said I was really keen for a water birth and she said its not going to happen as she "has a feeling my weight will creep up, making me not flexible enough.. and my veins are crap" My bmi was 32.3, I've put on about 20lbs and I'm still walking my dogs through the forests for at least an hour a day plus everything I was doing before. I'm fit and active and my bp is fine. I had a trace of protein in my urine today but that's it.
Arghhh woman is driving me crazy!
I mentioned that i'd like my placenta capsulated and she just raised her eyebrows at my partner and wouldn't even write it in my notes!
Added all the other sly remarks she puts in, I just feel like she's ruining something that should be so beautiful. Its my baby, my birth and although I know I cant "plan" anything really, I just wanted it to be special to me. My partner is so sucked in by everything she says and takes it as fact which is pissing me off even more.