I have never had in-law problems before and we actually get along really great. I feel like I have a second mother......until we shared our news early of #3 with just our parents. It was clear that we were not announcing to anyone else until we were ready, for sure not until 2nd trimester. My MIL even said to me, this is your big announcement to make and you should announce to everyone when you are ready.
We had a hard time with #1 being born with a birth defect and with #2 I had 2nd trimester bleeding and basically we weren't sure if things would be alright.....he was! So, for #3 I feel very cautious and wasn't ready to announce yet. I have just found out this week that my in-laws WHOLE entire family knows our news because my in-laws could not keep the secret. Apparently they made it just 1 week until they started sharing our news. I am hurt and upset about this and just so disappointed. I thought we had a better relationship than this and I feel like I cannot trust them anymore! Not sure what I'm looking for here, I just needed to vent. Thanks for listening.
We had a hard time with #1 being born with a birth defect and with #2 I had 2nd trimester bleeding and basically we weren't sure if things would be alright.....he was! So, for #3 I feel very cautious and wasn't ready to announce yet. I have just found out this week that my in-laws WHOLE entire family knows our news because my in-laws could not keep the secret. Apparently they made it just 1 week until they started sharing our news. I am hurt and upset about this and just so disappointed. I thought we had a better relationship than this and I feel like I cannot trust them anymore! Not sure what I'm looking for here, I just needed to vent. Thanks for listening.