miscarriage 6 weeks is miscarriage?

[longing]

Hi,

I feel crap. Our second ivf and it's ended at 6 weeks, 4 days yesterday. My experience is that my body (I think) got rid of everything at once. I had slight contraction and everything. And I'm pretty sure I saw my baby.

My other half doesn't seem to understand and says that he thinks that at this stage it would be just like a period and that I was being dramatic calling it a misscarrige. It definitely wasnt anything I'd experienced before. I know he might be doing this for self preservation. But now I don't feel justified in how I feel. It was real right? I mean for two lovely weeks the IVF had worked. Now I feel a bit lost and confused. Am I being dramatic?

Sorry, but rambly

 

[Kiwiberry]

losing your baby is losing your baby no matter what anyone who could never experience a miscarriage thinks . I am so sorry for your loss and everything you're going through sweetie.

 

[xxmyheartxx]

Definitely not being dramatic hun, it's heartbreaking loosing your baby no matter how far gone you was, sending lots of hugs to you, im so sorry for your loss xxx

 

[longing]

Thank you ladies xx

 

[melfy77]

My 2nd miscarriage was at 6w5d and I had small contractions and passed the sac with the embryo. I was expecting it since my hcg levels sucked, but it was still hard. Thankfully I got preggo right after and my rainbow is now a beautiful and healthy 4 year old girl☺

 

[longing]

Thank you for sharing your story. I never expected contractions and passing the sac like I did. I'm so glad it wasn't just me who experienced this, and so glad you had a happy ending. Gives us hope. Thank you xxx

My oh did later apologise for the way he behaved. I don't think he realised what happens or how much it affects us both xx