My sister had a miscarriage at 17 weeks and it was the saddest part of our lives ever. What she and I want to know is when she had the miscarriage they just took the baby away. They didn't tell her what sex it was, or what was the cause of the loss. They havnt even gave her a follow up appointment. This is quite devastating as we would like know what where when and how. Any suggestions as to where we could go to get some answers. Seems like the hospital just treated it as "another loss".