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Getting married next June. We miscarried our first and only child in 2011. I'd like to incorporate her in same way in our wedding. However, SO doesn't want it to be obviously about a miscarriage because he feels it's too depressing for a wedding.
I wanted to do frog charm decor on the candles (frogs were going to be her nursery theme). But I would want a little card on the table "In memory of" or "Miscarriage Awareness" with information about where you can donate.
The other thought was to buy miscarriage awareness wristbands and give as favors. This way WE are donating and spreading awareness.
However, SO doesn't like either of those. I don't want our child to be a depressing topic. I've spent the last 3 years trying to make thinking about her a happy experience. So I would love to incorporate her into our wedding.
Any ideas? Thoughts? Does anyone think it would indeed be depressing to other people?
Getting married next June. We miscarried our first and only child in 2011. I'd like to incorporate her in same way in our wedding. However, SO doesn't want it to be obviously about a miscarriage because he feels it's too depressing for a wedding.
I wanted to do frog charm decor on the candles (frogs were going to be her nursery theme). But I would want a little card on the table "In memory of" or "Miscarriage Awareness" with information about where you can donate.
The other thought was to buy miscarriage awareness wristbands and give as favors. This way WE are donating and spreading awareness.
However, SO doesn't like either of those. I don't want our child to be a depressing topic. I've spent the last 3 years trying to make thinking about her a happy experience. So I would love to incorporate her into our wedding.
Any ideas? Thoughts? Does anyone think it would indeed be depressing to other people?