miscarriage or not?

[mushmouth]

good luck for your scan - thinking of you x

 

[nictickle19]

Good luck and positive vibes for your scan today hon

xxx

 

[CelticNiamh]

Good luck today

 

[Mrs-C]

Good luck today

 

[Woxywoo]

Good luck for your scan today, I hope it's good news for you. xxx

 

[kazharry]

Good luck, I didn't have many symptoms with my twins, nowhere near like I have with this one I'm having now so fingers crossed for you x

 

[Rachel.P]

well girls bad news... it's empty in there now......
back to ttc it seems


a consultant had a look at my 1st scan though and the reason it seemed there was twins was because i had one fetus and 2 sacs. though the 2nd was empty and seems that it always was..

 

[Sevenladybugs]

I am so sorry for your loss

 

[Peril]

Awww hun i am so sorry for your loss.

✿*ﾟ‘ﾟ･✿ HUGS ✿*ﾟ‘ﾟ*✿

 

[london_gal]

I'm so sorry for your loss

 

[Chellepot]

My friend had a sac that appeared empty but her daughter was definately there. did they test your hormone levels again? Could it be that the sac just appears empty? I am so sorry you are having to go through all this
xxx

 

[happybeany]

Oh hun I'm sorry xxxxxx

 

[Rachel.P]

chellepot, i should be 8 weeks now so they would of seen something there.
i've had my hormones done. they're at 12... so not a chance

i'm not overly upset about it because i prepared myself for this before we evern started ttc. my mom had 4 m/c's before me and i also have pcos, so it's all against me really...

 

[Rachel.P]

and thanks everyone. i've got more support on here than i do from my family!
(though they hate the fact i've moved away to be with someone they've never met! (we've been together 3 years though)..)

 

[dannyboygirl]

sorry to hear

 

[Chellepot]

chellepot, i should be 8 weeks now so they would of seen something there.
i've had my hormones done. they're at 12... so not a chance

i'm not overly upset about it because i prepared myself for this before we evern started ttc. my mom had 4 m/c's before me and i also have pcos, so it's all against me really...

Ah im so sorry hun. I really admire your strength though to prepare yourself for this happening, I don't think I would have been able to. I really hope all the odds stacked against you cut you some slack, you really deserve your lucky break xxxx

 

[CelticNiamh]

Im so sorry and I hope next time you have a sticky bean

 

[Gonnabeamomma]

Hmmm... two things come to mind... one, at least you know you can get pregnant so that's good news and two, I have a friend who recently went through an old photo album after her Mom died. As she flipped pages her daughter said, "Oh, there's Uncle so and so." My friend was shocked. He died before her daughter was born. She asked her daughter, "where did you see his picture before?" "I didn't see his picture, Mom" she said, "I met him." Again a shocked silence and then my friend asked, "Where did you meet him?" "Well, once, I was in your stomach but I wasn't ready to come out so I left. Uncle so and so took care of me and told me all about you and he told me stories about you when you were a girl and how he would take you picking berries and fishing. He remembered everything about you and he told me how much you loved me and how sad you were when I had to leave. When it was time for me to come back, Uncle so and so told me that I would have to leave him but we would meet again and not to worry because he would always look out for us." My friend hadn't told anyone she miscarried a baby, and she hadn't told her daughter about her Uncle and how he helped raise her when she was a young girl. I'd like to think the baby you've lost (and the one I lost last year) isn't lost... s/he is waiting until the time is right so s/he will come back and find the time is right to be born. No matter what, I know your baby is and was loved by you and I'm sorry that you've not had the chance to hold him or her in your arms. As strong as you are, part of you is still in shock, nothing ever really prepares us to lose our child... no matter how young or old they are. You are in my thoughts and I wish you all the best. Take care.