hi hunni, i have had 8 miscarraiges and i have been given so many cock and bull stories i could write a book! after the 1st 3 they ran tests and said i have pcos, that was it, then after another 2 i demanded more tests and they said all ok, and the gynaes actual words to me were " your only young u have plenty of timeahead of you, its like rolling a dice you cant expect to get a 6 everytime" i could have swung for him, but then low and behold i fell preg and although i was bleeding loads i was scanned every week, and put on bedrest for 14 weeks, and my miracle was born, she was concieved on our honeymoon, but then trying for no 2 i had another 3 mc's and was told this time " i could not carry boys" the gynaes actual words this time were " you cant carry boys they get to a certain stage and keel over!" i mean who do they hire in these places chimps??
anyhow i fell preg again and had my little boy!! was a shock and i feel so lucky to have them, its just a shame what we have to go through to get it, but they put me on chlomid while preg and it seems to work for me? maybe everyone is different, push and oush for answers hunni but all the waiting i had to do and sitting in waiting rooms with preg people that i wanted to kill, was overwhelming. They say only 1 in 3 ladies have an actual answer as to why it happens, they can never know for sure unless there is something major wrong, i feel like an expert in the mc dept now, i know all you want is an answer hun as do i but it proves they talk bollox anyway!! sending lots of love hunni xxx
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