Missed Miscarriage- feeling lost
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sweetmommaof2
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I found out November 1st my baby didn't make it... Since finding out I was pregnant nothing was the same as before with my other two. I didn't have a lot of morning sickness, no breast tenderness, etc... I found out when I was only 3 weeks along so I thought in a few weeks I will start having some symptoms... I didn't. By week six I started spotting, went to the ER, then follow ups at the doctors, lots of blood work and ultrasounds and finally on November 1st (7 weeks 6 days) they told me there has been no fetal growth, my numbers were not rising the way they should, and no heart beat. They told me the baby passed away about the 5 week mark. They to gave me 3 options but they said with my history, fear, and mental health they suggest the pill. Which I did do that. I delivered the baby at home on Sunday November 4th. I go in for more testing to make sure everything was delivered so it doesn't turn into cancer on the 14th. After they make sure my numbers are back down to normal levels they are going to give the ok to start trying again... I have to say I am scared to try again. I don't know if I could mentally handle this again. I know this is common and a lot of women go through this anyone that have please tell me how long you have waited after it happened to try again, Is this fear normal??? Please help....
sweetmommaof2
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sweetie I am so glad it well for you. Take some time for you and your hubby and just you as well. Prayers for you and your husband. It has been six days since I had mine... time and praying helped me and having an awesome support system not only within my family but my friends and both our work places... much love to you and your husband and if you ever need to vent you can message me!
