Cartersmomm
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*Warning*- this could be TMI for the weak stomached
My husband and I found out at 16 weeks that our sweet baby no longer had a heartbeat and likely stopped growing at 10w5d. I was told I had experienced a missed miscarriage. I was offered the options of either waiting, drugs, or the d&c surgery. I always tend To go for the more natural route so I wanted to wait and let my body do it's job.
That was two weeks ago, last week I had some light cramping and spotting. This week I started bleeding like a period on Monday night, it continued through until today (Friday) the blood clots so far have been less clot-like and more just really thick strings of blood. But today I've had increased painful cramping and when I went to sit on the toilet I felt something slip out. I thought i had passed the baby because it was so big, but when I collected it I could see it was just a really thick blood clot. About the size of a mandarin orange (flattened - not round).
I've read that if you're passing clots bigger than a quarter to go to emergency, but I'm not bleeding a lot, like barely saturating half a pad over a few hours. So I'm not concerned about losing too much blood. I'm just wondering if anyone else who has had a miscarriage around 10weeks and passed it naturally, what their bleeding was like before they actually passed the baby.
I feel like I'm going to pass the baby soon, because so far that was the biggest clot I've passed and the most pain I've been in, so I guess I'm just wondering if my intuition is right?
It's been a long couple of weeks waiting for this to happen, so I'm hoping it will be over soon so that we can have some closure.
Please respond with details I won't be grossed out! It's so hard to find information on this topic in the internet. It's all so vague. Searching for some clarity!
Thank you!
My husband and I found out at 16 weeks that our sweet baby no longer had a heartbeat and likely stopped growing at 10w5d. I was told I had experienced a missed miscarriage. I was offered the options of either waiting, drugs, or the d&c surgery. I always tend To go for the more natural route so I wanted to wait and let my body do it's job.
That was two weeks ago, last week I had some light cramping and spotting. This week I started bleeding like a period on Monday night, it continued through until today (Friday) the blood clots so far have been less clot-like and more just really thick strings of blood. But today I've had increased painful cramping and when I went to sit on the toilet I felt something slip out. I thought i had passed the baby because it was so big, but when I collected it I could see it was just a really thick blood clot. About the size of a mandarin orange (flattened - not round).
I've read that if you're passing clots bigger than a quarter to go to emergency, but I'm not bleeding a lot, like barely saturating half a pad over a few hours. So I'm not concerned about losing too much blood. I'm just wondering if anyone else who has had a miscarriage around 10weeks and passed it naturally, what their bleeding was like before they actually passed the baby.
I feel like I'm going to pass the baby soon, because so far that was the biggest clot I've passed and the most pain I've been in, so I guess I'm just wondering if my intuition is right?
It's been a long couple of weeks waiting for this to happen, so I'm hoping it will be over soon so that we can have some closure.
Please respond with details I won't be grossed out! It's so hard to find information on this topic in the internet. It's all so vague. Searching for some clarity!
Thank you!