Missed miscarriage

[Orange lady]

Thank you for all of your kind words. When this happens (particularly in your very first pregnancy) you feel very alone and wonder why you. All of you ladies have made me feel like there is support and that this terrible thing is actually quite common.
It's been about 10 days since my ERPC and 2 weeks since I had my scan. It is slowly getting easier. Hubby and I decided to tell our close family as they were all here at Xmas, and they have been very supportive. Turns out that many family members have had similar experiences.
So, my aim now, is to get fit and well again. The ERPC was ok. I must mention that as it's a scary thought if you have to have one. It was a simple procedure, and I had no complications. I only bled for about a week, and all my pregnancy symptoms have gone. So onwards and upwards. We have been advised to wait for another cycle before we try again, and to be honest, for sanity's sake I think that's a good idea. But we will try again. But i have to prepare myself that it may not happen again straight away. So am going to try and get back to normal life, and see what happens.
If nothing else, this whole experience has just proved to hubby and I how much we want to have a child, and how sure we are about that. It has also proved how strong we are together, and i am thankful for that. You often hear of couples splitting up through the strain.
I'll keep everybody posted, but thanks so much you are helping me through!!
xxxxxxx

 

[Orange lady]

Thanks Alex. My sleep has been terrible too, it doesn't help when you look in the mirror and see a wreck does it? Try and take some time out and relax. Slob in front of some movies, cry if you need to and sleep as much as you can. Now is the time to take care of you, then you'll be fit and ready to try again. Take good care x

 

[Barneyboo]

I want to say I am so very sorry for your loss x x x x

 

[keepingfaith]

So sorry to hear about your loss. I myself have had 2 miscarriages. The first one was a missed miscarriage and the 2nd one is currently in the process of happening. The doctor I saw yesterday told me that 1/2 pregnancies result in miscarriage which seems like an awfully high number. I just hope that the next one goes right for us since the odds should be in my favour. Just feels like such a terrible thing to go through...but time does make things better.

 

[Drazic<3]

Im so sorry for your loss.
It seems like nothing now, but time is a fantastic healer. Dont feel pressure to do anything right now - take some time for you, heal your body and your mind first. There is no reason to suggest you wont be able to fall again in the future and have a full term baby.

Sending you lots of love and hugs.