suffolksarah
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HI all.
Just want to moan about the OH for a bit, so be warned!!!
Well me and oH DTD on Monday night becuase we wanted to, then yesterday i got a positive OPK,when i got home my OH said 'i am so tired, ive had such a busy day' (translated as 'no sex tonight')
I said Please as today and tomorrow is the day we need to try. He compleatly flew off the handle at me, saying he doesnt like me demanding sex when hes tired, and he hates the whiole TTC sex.
He said when he is asked to do some thing he refuses as he feels like i am treating him like a child, He compared dtd to doing the washing up, he said hes quite happy to do both but wont do it when hes told!!!
I was so upset, he compared dtd to washing up????? I was really upset, i mean surely he enjoys dtd? I have really tried not to talk about DTD since the MC as i know he doesnt like the pressure.
But surely having sex with his partner 2 nights in a row isnt too much of a chore!!!!
I know i want this so much more than him (he is not overly fussed about kids) He moans at me saying 'sometimes i think children is all you want', but i dont think he understand how powerful our maturnal feelings are.
I have always wanted children, it has always been my goal, i have been looking after other people children as a nanny for the last 12 years, and now i want to look after my own, so, so much!.
i dont think he gets it.
I love him so much and will stay with him if we found out we couldnt have kids, but children have alway been my plan.
He says it will happen when it happens, which may be the case, but it will never hapen if i dont get the timing right.
I was just so so cross and upset, that he wouldnt do it. I don't want to waste anymore time.
Anyway, an hour and a half down the line, argueing, me explaining how i fell, and me feeling selfish for wanted to DTD, me in tears for a while . we finally do it!!! ( i mean we could of done it 4 times over by then!!)
My heart wasnt really in it all i could think about was it being comared to doing the washing up!!!!!!
But hopefully his lil men are swimming the right direction!!!
The battle to DTD starts again tonight. GGGGGGRRRRRRRRRR
Rant over!!! xx
Just want to moan about the OH for a bit, so be warned!!!
Well me and oH DTD on Monday night becuase we wanted to, then yesterday i got a positive OPK,when i got home my OH said 'i am so tired, ive had such a busy day' (translated as 'no sex tonight')
I said Please as today and tomorrow is the day we need to try. He compleatly flew off the handle at me, saying he doesnt like me demanding sex when hes tired, and he hates the whiole TTC sex.
He said when he is asked to do some thing he refuses as he feels like i am treating him like a child, He compared dtd to doing the washing up, he said hes quite happy to do both but wont do it when hes told!!!
I was so upset, he compared dtd to washing up????? I was really upset, i mean surely he enjoys dtd? I have really tried not to talk about DTD since the MC as i know he doesnt like the pressure.
But surely having sex with his partner 2 nights in a row isnt too much of a chore!!!!
I know i want this so much more than him (he is not overly fussed about kids) He moans at me saying 'sometimes i think children is all you want', but i dont think he understand how powerful our maturnal feelings are.
I have always wanted children, it has always been my goal, i have been looking after other people children as a nanny for the last 12 years, and now i want to look after my own, so, so much!.
i dont think he gets it.
I love him so much and will stay with him if we found out we couldnt have kids, but children have alway been my plan.
He says it will happen when it happens, which may be the case, but it will never hapen if i dont get the timing right.
I was just so so cross and upset, that he wouldnt do it. I don't want to waste anymore time.
Anyway, an hour and a half down the line, argueing, me explaining how i fell, and me feeling selfish for wanted to DTD, me in tears for a while . we finally do it!!! ( i mean we could of done it 4 times over by then!!)
My heart wasnt really in it all i could think about was it being comared to doing the washing up!!!!!!
But hopefully his lil men are swimming the right direction!!!
The battle to DTD starts again tonight. GGGGGGRRRRRRRRRR
Rant over!!! xx